The question of how to do everything, worried people for a long time. And not only moms, not only in 2020. But nevertheless, every year it is becoming more relevant for young mothers, which is now most often not only devoted to the whole of their lives to the child and sit at home, but also work and do any development of their identity. So, the sharper, this problem "Touch everything" is rising, the more it is discussed, the more different opinions arise. But I will share with you exactly those things that help me to manage to do everything planned. I also have a family, a husband and two kids. I have a job, my intagram, which requires maximum attention. And a lot of other activities that must be combined with all this.
Schedule
Be sure to make a schedule for the day. It can be any convenient format for you, both a diary and notes or any applications in the phone. At the end of the week, make a week a week all planned events that will be repelled. Further in the process of the appearance of other cases, begin to complement the schedule. But it is very important that it is necessary to paint not only work and meeting, and also time for food, feeding baby, rest, walking with a child and so on. You must prescribe everything in detail and by the hour. Only when everything is written, your affairs will not move anywhere and will not fly anything.
It is necessary to paint not only work and meetings, and also time on food, feeding baby, rest, walks with a child
Schedule for a month
Conveniently, except the daily schedule, you also hang a calendar for a month, where some global events and holidays are marked. It is better that he hung somewhere in a prominent place, and it does not have to be a unparalleled stationery calendar. Now there are a lot of different designer and stylish wall calendars who will only add a charm to your home. So, mark there big trips, birthdays of friends and family meetings. Perhaps you have any things with a child, but only next month, mark them there. So that you can focus on important global events in life. And build plans based on them.
Do not refuse help
Often mommies, wanting to spend all free time with the child, refuse any help. It is very important to understand that you are not a wizard, and if during the period of the decree you are also working, developing and so on, then you should not avoid sentences of help from loved ones. If your parents wanted to take a child for a weekend, let them take. You can dedicate yourself this time and relax, or arrange a romantic date with my husband, a lot of options. If his godpan offers to walk with him to unload you a little, but you should not say "no." Because of a couple of hours without you a week, he will not forget who his mother.
In your schedule and plans you need to place priorities
Set priorities
In your schedule and plans you need to place priorities. All in this world will not work anyway, no matter how beautiful the time management you did not own. Think what is now more important for you, and what can move for a while. First, you are a mother, and this is priority for you, then you are separating the biggest piece of your time. Secondly, you, for example, blogger, and without your attention to the blog, the audience will just leave. And this is the loss of the blog, and the loss of work. Accordingly, he also gives most of the remaining time. Thirdly, you, for example, have long wanted to go to rights. But now you have no car, study takes a lot of time. So it can be postponed for a year or two, will return to this later, since now other business is more priority.
try to approach everything as consciously, learn to feel and love yourself first
Feel yourself
If you understand that you are tired - rest. If you understand, "something is wrong", stop and think about everything. We very often run, capturing a thousand and one activity in your life, because "so need." What for? If you don't like something, refuse it or change. Without rest and in discomfort you will not achieve good results not in one of the spheres: neither in motherhood, nor in work or in personal life. Therefore, try to approach everything as consciously, learn to feel and love primarily yourself.