Recently, Roman Mayakina is still offering the roles of men who are obsessed with passions. And in life, he gives the impression of a person very reasonable who knows well what he wants. He soon had to grow up - at eighteen years, the novel lost his parents and sister. Also early, he became the head of the family, marrying a woman with three children. And now it is already growing up and the fourth - Mikhail. On how to keep the balance between the house and work, desires and opportunities, and what to teach sons - in an interview.
- Roman, as in the "Sweet Life", in the new series of "psychologies" on the STS your hero is inside a love triangle. Are not afraid to get stuck in this role?
- Yes, I also seemed first that stories are similar. But here there is one serious difference. In the "sweet life" my hero, as it is called, with fat, bends: he is a government official, packed materially, there is a family, children. From boredom, he begins to look for available cute girls. In "psychologists", a rather mature man falls in love - and so that he literally blows the roof. And the psychologist he finds himself to save his family. Probably some deeds are crazy we are committed in moments of love. Although personally I have never had such in life. I have enough sensible to everything, including relations. Maybe everything is still ahead. Here is the wife read - it will be happy. (Laughs.) In any case, to play a desperately in love men - what could be better?!
- Did you not have the state of soulful, when you had to choose between two women?
"I have long been living with Elena, my wife, who is eleven, probably." At the Institute, of course, novels occurred, but I always understood with whom I have seriously, and with no one. So you did not have to choose. But this is really a steep plot and theme, which is called eternal. We are all trying to avoid family routine. Sometimes men and women and women somehow diversify their sexual, emotional life. Fantasy arise, but not everyone has enough courage to take the next step. Requires certain forces and nerves to destroy the former relationships and start new ones. And most people are also lazy by nature. Personally, I have enough such situations in the movie. When love is played, you are tied to the partner, you pretend the story of yourself. Everything is almost like in fact.
In the series "Psychologies", the hero of Mayakina was inside a love triangle
- Roman, are you prone to self-confidence, analyzing your actions?
- It seems to me that anyone must analyze his actions. A good analysis that brings a positive result improves the quality of life, this is a certain work on yourself. Now I was driving on an interview in a cold bus and reflected on the topic that it is necessary to materialize thoughts, think in a positive direction. But for all the concept of "good" means completely different. For someone, it's good to get drunk vodka and sleep with a girl on the first evening. We practically do not watch the TV at home, but I recently included one program with my wife - they showed the plot about a girl who having sex directly on a dance floor with any guy like her. And here she tells what kind of a kind of man, how she likes to do it in humans. Agree, this is the problem of society, and not specifically a girl. Why talk to her, show her on TV? She fulfilled her task - she wanted to be glorified, and at all costs. Say, what level of development of this person, if he puts such goals in front of him? Does she analyze their actions, thinks at least a step forward? Unlikely. Moreover, parents support it. It would be better if they were not on TV watched all rubbish, and their daughter was engaged. For some reason it seems to me, my children do not have such thoughts in the future. So the analysis needs to be engaged and sometimes ask yourself why some people have a good life, and you are not very.
- I understand that you did not have serious psychological problems, did not apply to specialists?
- You know, the psyche of the actor is generally unstable. (Laughs.) I think, eighty percent of my colleagues have some deviations from the norm. Yes, and in general, our generation, whose ripening and adulthood accounted for dashing nineties, quite peculiar. I do not want to say that our family loved. Mom and dad worked hard, and they needed elementary to raise children. I went to school not to receive knowledge, but because there is a cheerful company going. The time then was dangerous, people were killed right on the streets. Life itself taught to be cunning, carefully, keep everything in yourself. And now I observe a certain closure, the closeness, from which slowly starts to be freed. But at all, it is not necessary to decline to admit that you are not all perfect. Everyone has deviations. Another thing is how strong they are, launched and complicate life. Then you need to work with them. If you can not figure out, turn to smart uncles, specialists.
- You had to start an independent life early. At eighteen years you have lost your relatives: parents, sister. Who or what helped you then?
- I do not know how my life would have developed if I hadn't had to survive this. Believe me for the word: the dark ends, and the experience that you acquire may be very useful. I can not say that I have straight relatives. But the mother had two sisters, my aunt. Help first time. Mom sick two and a half years, she had oncology. But she could reach me, devoid to the fourth course. I have already worked at that time. What to say? At any age, it is hard to bury parents, because you lose the closest and expensive that you have. But in principle, so nature is laid down that parents go before us. Therefore, the body somehow makes it live further.
- Are you an independent person in nature? There are children homemade, very attached to their relatives.
- For the time being, I was a domestic child, and then the street was tightened. You can say, I consisted in a courtyard gang. And right out of it got into theatrical. (Smiles.) But care for me, like anyone, of course, is needed. Therefore, probably, we and my wife agreed so early, I was only twenty-one. I wanted family, loved ones.
With spouse Elena Kulyva together eleven years old
Photo: Personal archive of Roman Mayakina
- And she was an adult woman, with three children.
- Lena for five years older than me. Then she was twenty-six - well, what is it an adult? Not really. (Laughs.) Yes, and now too. It is in her and like it. After all, there are such serious young lady - rightfully becomes scary.
- To enter into relationships with a woman who has three children, - on your part it is a hyperence or youthful recklessness?
- I do not know how it happened, and it happened. Of course, the children were experiencing the first time, but this is not a matter of me. (Smiles.) Do you think I then reasoned about responsibility? I was well with Lena, I wanted to live together. And if she has three more little men, with whom I also have good? Why not. It is clear that there were certain difficulties, but we overcame them and now everything is miraculously communicate. Now I have three more friends who know me from early childhood - cool! You need to think about good, and not to tune yourself to the negative, do not wind the danger. Then they will certainly appear. And in general, I believe that the children are needed as an example for imitation, and all the intricacies of education should be done. Dad - strong, caring, reliable, family provides - here's its functions. I now understand that I have absolutely behavior of my father. Not that he is my idol and his portrait hanging somewhere on the wall. But I comfortably live and build relationships in the family as it did. And nothing can be done about it. These are not genes, but an example. Well, I got married not on the children, I was looking for a woman myself, not my mother.
"But you said: you need care."
- Sure. The death of parents does not pass without a trace. For five years I lost my dad, mom and sister. There was a family - and suddenly it was not. It is clear that for some time there was a rehabilitation process. And my wife helped me get out of this state - just with my presence, care. Under the word "care" I mean not the fact that she was washing socks and borshed. This is a broader concept that the love and feeling of heat, security implies.
- You said in one of the interviews that the hero of our time is a hypocritical bastard who loves money ...
- Don't you think so? In my opinion, this position is now popular, the time heroes are not chosen. Money is in the first place, and to get them, people begin to hypocrite. It is fashionable to be easy, nothing is deeply immersed. I just said that I play such characters - relevant for our time. The scenarios are written now living people, and there are many of these heroes - false, fake, who are doing meanness to get material benefits. Yes, turn on the TV - there is only about it and they say that someone deceived someone or substituted.
- were the bad times that you with Elena survived and made sure that she would not throw you under any circumstances?
- In fact, at first my wife was very hard with me. I was extremely unpleasant. (Smiles.) Probably subconsciously I wanted to check how many sincere feelings. We always want us to just like us so much for anything. And insanely. This is how parents include us, and then we are trying to find the same absolute love. Sometimes it happens: it seems to me that my wife loves me for anything. Now, after the eleven years of living together, I have already started to demand something, uses me, knows that I will not get anywhere from her. (Smiles.) Uses - I'm talking to a smile, so in fact and should be in the family. The first year, when we had a common child, was probably the most difficult. It turned out that I left the theater, more precisely, I "left." (Roman for ten years served in the theater. Mossoveta. - Approx. Auth.). There were no special offers in the movie. I then weighed one hundred thirty kilograms, and, you know, the range of roles was quite small. Imagine: a small child, no work, prospects. I thought: everything is the edge. And the main problem was in my head. I really did not believe in my senses, I began to succumb to external negative factors. So it happens in life, you do not need to be afraid. Sometimes you need to fall on the bottom to push off from it.
With the on-screen wife Maria Shumakova in the popular television film "Sweet Life"
- Not everyone turns out, someone is sitting in a swamp. Family made you shake?
- Not. Understand, no one can make something to do something except for him. All people of the Egoist actually. All we do in life, we are preparing first for yourself. And this is right, healthy egoism should be present. After all, if you won't be, you can't take care of others. Think about yourself, but at the same time aware what you do for what you are: to ensure that your children are stronger, so that women love you to work out at work.
- We talked about the hero of our time. But you do not want to be so? In my opinion, you have an understanding of real values.
"I don't want someone to appreciate me." There are several people in my life - first of all it is my wife and children - which I need to prove something. As for the rest, I don't care what you think about. I think it is necessary to do so that the conscience does not torment. Do not do other things that you do not want yourself. Everything is simple: mirroring the situation and put yourself in place of another person. The only thing I can not cope with nothing, - stop swearing on the roads. Seriously, I swear as a shoemaker, I can not control myself. I start to yell, I can stop, run out of the car. This, too, probably passed from the Father. He always worn on the road. There was a case, we went with a colleague, I told something to her, began to rebuild into the right row, and suddenly, from where neither hurry a taxi, and without headlights, we almost encountered. And the driver then overtook me and began to shout in the window that I myself was to blame. There, I could not restrain and expressed everything I think about him. Then it was so uncomfortable in front of the girl. (Laughs.) But such outbreaks are sometimes needed - everyone is very bad for health.
"Therefore, you probably live outside the city: there quiet, calmer and smaller people.
- Yes. And I love to make something with my own hands. Yesterday, for example, Paul painted in a child in the room. It's very nice. I consider physical work should be present in a person's life, well brains can be cleaned. It is necessary to send one deputies somewhere periodically for construction work. I'm really better in the village. Let I spend two hours on the road, but during this time I manage to rebuild from one reality to another. Do not drag home working problems, and vice versa. So this is another way to make your family happy. The main thing is that everyone is good at home.
- You are not an ambitious person in the profession?
- Why did you decide so?
- You just said: The main thing is that everyone is good at home.
- In any case, we arrange priorities. If I fell to choose between family and work, of course, I choose the family. I do not have such a feeling that if tomorrow I will stop being removed, life will stop. Maybe in two years I will become a bartender and I will buzz from this. Just some turn their lives to work, can no longer think anything else. Of course, when there is a need to discuss problems, consult, we do it with my wife. If it helps somehow solve the task - well. But the work must first bring money to the house. Very cool when you made your favorite business and you can earn it. I have ambitions, and I try to take certain steps for career development. But if I was not approved for the role, it does not always mean that I am a bad actor, there are many external factors. Maybe today the director of casting cut a man very similar to me? (Laughs.)
In the moviealman "Without Borders", the Roman got the role of Major
- You have so easily said that they could change the profession, and many of your colleagues talk about a vocation, a great mission.
- My colleagues are talking to a lot of things to seem special, messengers of God. I worked for ten years in the theater, I was interested, but I can not say that I would like to spend all my life in the theater and treat it as a mission. Acting is exactly the same craft that needs to be mastered. And the main tool in this profession is yourself. The richer, the life experience is deeper, the more interesting and convincing you as an actor. And if something does not fold, it is necessary to blame first of all yourself. Not everything, of course, depends on us - there may be an uninteresting scenario or the director will not fully clarify the task, but the face of the project is the actors. I even stopped watching our work. Although it is probably necessary to do to understand where to go and develop.
- Do not have a special relationship to you in connection with the profession?
- Probably not. If I'm tired after changing, I go to bed. I rest with children. Shallow with you take everywhere. In general, my vacation is a switching from one type of activity to another.
- You, like a real man, built a house yourself. Who taught you construction?
- My own mistakes. And father, of course. The house in which we now live, he also began to build. And I watched him, how now my son is watching me. Something we are doing with him. Yes, there is nothing complicated. The most important thing is to start. As I began to paint the floor yesterday - and there are thirty-five squares, and it is necessary to stab in every skirt, to cover with varnish, it came to horror. How much time I am accustomed to this?! Here one board is half an hour, and two hundred them! And then the taste has entered, and the work boiled. So do not be afraid of anything and install some kind of frames yourself.
- What do you think, what qualities need to develop in the boys, educate?
- responsibility in the first place. We have a certain problem in society. This since the times of the Great Patriotic War began: half of the male population died, and the country was raised by the country. The boys grew at that time saw an example of a strong mother who herself can. The role of a man went on the background. And women are now beginning to perform men's functions, high posts occupy, the presidents are running away. But still inside us live ancient instincts: I bring you mammoth, and you create a family with me. Still, a woman must be for a man. I want to raise responsibility in my son: everything that in his life is good or bad happens, - the matter of his hands. No need to blame anyone for failure, my wife including. From a woman depends a lot, she inspires a man. But the responsibility for each act should bear you yourself.