A scrupulous theme for many parents is a conversation for an intimate topic. Adults are difficult to find an approach to the baby or adolescence to explain everything in a soft form and not scare. We offer the right pedagogical approach to sex education.
Do not speak about them
Talking about anatomy or reproduction, do not pay attention to the child personally. Speak in the third face about the girl or boy, come up with the name to them - so the baby will not be shying to this topic. You can talk to the children of adolescent age on the examples of relatives and common acquaintances - they are quite adults to keep secrets and perceive the stories adequately.
Do not close your eyes to the child
Do not switch channels
If the film suddenly shows a sexy scene, usually parents sharply switch the channel or ask children to close their eyes if they want to watch the tape to the end. So the child in the reaction of parents understands that sex is ashamed and constantly, that badly affects his behavior with partners in the future. Catherine Maibi, head PSHE [Personal, Social, Medical and Economic Education] at the Burntwood School School in London, says that if sex appears on television or radio, use it as a reason for the conversation.
Use "adults" words
Surely you heard the strange names of the genital organs from the like adult people. Paulic education is impossible without anatomical terms. Tell a teenager than the structure of a man and a woman differs from which parts are their interpretation. The earlier the child gets used to the term, the easier it will be to talk to the partner in the future.
Absolute freedom - what needs children
Do not be afraid of the body
Analogously to the example of the TV, many adults shy their body in ordinary life. No need to walk all the time to walk in clothes - at home calmly "flaunt" in underwear and dress the child in the same way. In the bath, take it with you - until the age of 4, children are not completely shy of the genitals and equally look at adults regardless of the floor. Do not let the grandparents scold children for the fact that they love to walk bare - from nature the human body needs freedom to maintain normal temperatures.