Another interesting example of a dream sent me today. We have already spoken with you on the pages of this column about repeating dreams. Today we will analyze an example of one of these dreams and help the dream of it to decipher it yourself.
But first remember the original prerequisites for the analysis of sleep, which is dreaming once at some time. Such dreams will indicate some topic in the life of a dream, which has become relevant. Because the dream invites this topic or allow this question.
So sleep:
"For almost a month on weekends (from Friday on Saturday or from Saturday to Sunday), I dream of the same person, the yards of an unfamiliar city, a slope covered with mud. He is left below, I'm upstairs, or vice versa. He clearly wants to talk to me, trying to go to me or call me to approach him, but both understand that his wife should soon go through this road, and now it appears in the distance. I'm afraid of her, he fears her. But I wake up with a very warm and joyful feeling. At the same time, my conversation and his real life is impossible. How and why this repetitive sleep? "
It is a pity that the dream of "His" was desiracted. Since in the text, the pronoun is written with a capital letter, the risk to assume that the person is more than real, and the attitude to this image is personal, valuable. I think that the fact that someone is on the mountain, and someone at the bottom means just the impossibility of contact in real life. The dirty slope means it is possible that this contact in the life "stains" something, "stepping".
Now the most interesting thing: the relationship that the wife of this person can detect, which should be hidden.
Perhaps the dream hints at the very dream of the sphere that it is forced to hide from someone, even from himself: the subject of passion, the topic of love or attachment to someone. Her own sleep plays this drama in front of her day when it is difficult to distract their work or switch to a domestic routine.
Now ask our heroine (I hope she reads this article) Issues for which no one, besides her, no more accurately answer:
- What associations cause a dream?
- What episode of sleep is the strongest experience? What is it associated with?
- How do you feel about prohibitions and restrictions?
- What do you do with attachment or passion?
- What qualities is the hero of your sleep? Do you have them?
- Imagine that you would not wake up, but saw a dream further. How would events unfold?
- If you knew that it was just a dream, and in a dream everything can, how would you behave yourself?
Having answered these questions, a dream will be able to identify how this lesson carries this dream.
For quite esoterically tuned, I can say that there are a number of hypnotherapists who also believe that our soul is reincarnated, living a lot of different fate and tempering in a variety of life lessons. Moreover, there are souls close to them, which are embodied from life into life next to each other, passing side by side of the lessons of pain or love. Some of these therapists suggest that dreams are partial memory of the soul about past experiments and destinies. Perhaps in this life, sleep tells about what was already sometime between these souls. Ban on the connection that exists and stretches like a lesson to learn. But let him say a genuine author of such reflections. If this point of view seems close, then you can read a number of Michael Newton's works about the trips of the soul.
If the idea seems completely ridiculous, then the answers to the questions by paragraph above are quite suitable for decrypting sleep symbol. Good luck!
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Maria Dyachkova, PSYCHOLOGIST, Family therapist and leading trainings of personal growth Training center Marika Khazin