Sometimes in a dream we see a person with whom there are no connections in reality. He is not a relative, not a friend, not even someone significant and important.
In dreams there are images of our past, childhood, youth.
Emotionally saturated moments of life could be associated with them at one time, but, more than years, it does not mean anything for us.
However, sleep with the help of these images leads us to new depths of understanding themselves and occurring in the life of events.
Let's turn to sleep one of the readers:
"I suddenly dreamed of my first love, a man. He came to us (to me and my family) home tired. Right in jeans, shoes fell on the bed. I'm standing in confusion. His sorry, I want to help ... I think: "How will the husband react if he suddenly sees such a picture?". Nothing foreshadowed in a dream of such a forgotten person. We met when I was a schoolgirl, I have last seen 8 years ago. The first association with the image of this man - youth, love, innocence. "
At first glance - sleep is simple and understandable. There is a heroine, there is her former love, and something is wrong with him.
But let's try to decipher sleep in this way: instead of references to a particular man, we will insert those associations about which Dovyditsa reported.
I dreamed of my first love - youth, innocence. She came to me and my family to the house. Tired fell on the bed. I'm standing in confusion. Sorry youth, love and innocence. I want to help her. I think: what will the husband say when he sees it? "
So the picture of sleep becomes completely different. As if heloin sees her young, naive, in love and trusting the soul particle is not in the best shape. She is tired, exhausted. And it is not worth showing my husband.
This side is a pity, it is necessary to help. And she needs rest.
Perhaps our heroine should pay attention to how long have she dreamed of, fantasted just like that? How often does it allow themselves to be naive, inexperienced, gullible?
Usually people who control their spontaneous and young manifestations look tired. Perhaps our heroine had time to loosen the samokontrol entrance.
I suggest you, dear readers, make the same experiment with your sleep. It is necessary to act like this:
1. Write your dream.
2. Write out images from sleep and association to this way. The most correct thing is to write down the first thing that comes to mind, without censorship.
3. Rewrite your sleep, inserting associations associated with them instead of people.
4. If you have insignia and opening after this process - write them down.
I invite you to share these discoveries on the pages of the column.
Write letters to mail [email protected] - everything will definitely discuss.
See you soon!
Maria Zemskova, psychologist, family therapist and leading trainings of the personal growth of the Trading Center Marika Hazin.