This time I will give 2 sleep different women with comments on how completely different information is hidden behind erotic content.
Sleep of the first dreaming : "After unrestrained sex, which I do not remember at all, I ask a man:" Let's repeat that I remember! "So I want to - straight horror how, it seems not to mind, but not ready. I look - he is not worth it, the little such a segment hangs out, and he looks at me, I and so it, and he does not get up. "
It is important to say that for some time the dream is working in the therapeutic group over the topic of building relationships. She will have a long way to release himself for more mature love, because until this point in the relationship was rapid and passionate, but as soon as the passion ended, the relationship ended too. She saw this dream as the result of his research in this topic.
It reflects that it perceives the proximity to a man from the state of unauthorized hunger. As a man tortured in the wilderness in the desert, finding an oasis, loses consciousness from a sudden cessation of torment and drinks until it is poured back. The same for the dream is the state of intimate proximity - "get drunk" to the dump, as if no longer happens. It looks like ack when she loses a sense of contact with him during sex. By the way, women brought up on love novels often believe that this is the norm. What not to feel during sex is a sign of his correctness and wild passion. Interestingly, why this aspect of sex is so perceived, when if we lose consciousness on the street, in the store, at work, then we are called "ambulance" and carefully check health. In other areas, we know that contact with yourself is needed to accommodate yourself at every moment of time, and even more so at an intimate moment.
Now let's go back to the dream. Returning into consciousness, she tries to build a contact not from the state of deficit, but from other motives - and until she does not work. In reality, it faces the fact that she and her partner about creating the proximity in which both are present by their free will and quite aware of what is happening, no idea.
Mirror dream of another woman: "I dream that I had a man. We sit with him in my room, it is clear that the case moves to sex. He is in a silk bathrobe with a drawing "cucumbers", I see them clearly. But suddenly he spreads his legs, there is no lingerie under a bathrobe, and I see that there is nothing on the site of male organs, except huge scars. I look at him in a panic, and he answers: "You wanted a partner, not a man." I woke up on this. "
Here the dream is just reverse. In the intimate setting, images from sleep demonstrates her wounds in the subject of sexuality. Obvious wounds of men and less obvious - in a woman. Sleep showed her that she dreams of a "safe" partner who would not affect the sexual aspect of their relationship. And ultimately will truly not get closer to it. If he approaches, and sex will be possible, then ... here we will offer a dream of the very reflection on the topic, what psychological wounds in a sexy topic she is trying to heal by gaining asexual partner.
Freud argued that free sexual energy in us, which flows and finds various exits in the form of creativity, implement themselves, of course, sex, is the key to mental health and the full existence of a person. The harder the prohibitions than in the drama in this topic, the more difficult to flow our vital energy into us freely.
We wish our dreams to hear the promises of their dreams and move on.
And what dreams of you? Examples of your dreams send by mail: [email protected]. The way, the dreams are much easier to express if in a letter to the editor you will write preceding life circumstances, but most importantly - feelings and thoughts at the time of awakening from this dream.
Maria Dyachkova, PSYCHOLOGIST, Family therapist and leading trainings of personal growth Training center Marika Khazin