Very soon the new, 2021 year, but, as it often happens, there is not everyone's festive mood. It would seem that the anticipation of a festive week should be cheerful and inspire optimism, why doesn't it work? We spent a small survey and are ready to share the answers in which you may find out yourself.
"Extraly celebrate not with anyone"
New Year is a family holiday, almost no one is ready to stay in this magic night one on one with a TV. However, if at the time of the holidays there is no possibility to meet with loved ones or with friends, people most often prefer not to celebrate at all. Sometimes loneliness for the new year is able to call not just rejection, but even hatred for this holiday, because around the celebrating neighbors and screaming people on the street in a large company, such an atmosphere is able to truly call. And although this year the large clusters of people on the streets, and even more so in restaurants and clubs, will definitely not be observed, the feeling of loneliness in the main night can not be unseen.
"I could not find a suitable company"
It often happens so that it seems to be to celebrate with whom, but for some reason I do not want. Moreover, it can be your favorite relatives, but you know perfectly well that the traditional collection at the table, the discussion of the news for the year, uncomfortable questions from the relatives - not at all what you expected from the holiday. Or friends plan to collect a large company, and even those invited you, you understand that the planned entertainment is also not for you. As a result, plans for New Year's weekends are broken and not formed. Where in such a situation to take mood.
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"Everyone is running somewhere, I do not want to be so"
It happens that the general hysteria (in a positive way) gives rise not to the desire to join and sit on the clocks on the sites of stores, choosing gifts, on the contrary, you want to hide from the New Year hustle and "not to stick" until the end of holidays. If the mood and so on zero, and everything is only talking about where the decorations and spirit can be taken as a gift at a discount, the negative only multiplies. In some sense, this condition can be called loneliness in the crowd.
"Nothing good happened, what is there to celebrate?"
At the end of the year, it is customary to sum up, but can everyone say that most events for the year were joyful? Hardly, especially if we are talking about the events of the last year. But we have already said that we are able to influence our mood, and therefore in a situation where the thoughts about the past year do not bring joy, try to remember all the positive events - they have everyone - replace negative memories positive, concentrate on them and think About how much more good and joyful waiting for you next year. No despondency!