In the era, when a woman feels independent more than ever, there are still girls for whom celibacy is heavy wear, and "helps" in this is all our environment: family, friends, colleagues. We tried to figure out how a 30-year-old woman live in the world to which happy wives and mothers rule.
society ruthlessly dictates conditions
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Permanent fear of condemnation
Only the lazy will not specify a young woman in the absence of a "normal family", it is worth only to step over a 30-year-old frontier. However, admit to themselves - you were also surprised by familiar women who did not acquire mortgage and several children a few years ago. Now you can feel this condition on your experience.
If you are "lucky" with relatives, in the eyes of which the family is the only purpose of the woman, remain calm very difficult. In 20, you have not yet been imposed that it is time to think about marriage. Not. You are just starting to learn an adult life, but closer to 25 excitement of the family increases: your mother is starting to overcome the tall relatives with social regret: "Well, in no way, yes?" And my mother is just left to defend you in front of the relatives. But after some time, it will begin to worry the question of your loneliness, and the pressure inside the closest circle to withstand the most difficult.
Do not step over yourself
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At this time, at this time I absolutely do not want to devote your time to another person: you bloomed, you can afford to travel around the world, buy everything you see, do your favorite thing. And let someone flip your life?
In a situation where the whole world does not want to understand you, it is impossible to affect your own installations. Collottal relatives and friends may not know everything: perhaps you received so many hands and hearts, how many people did not dream, just each of these men appeared at the right moment. And who can guarantee happiness in marriage? No one knows who will be such a quiet and peaceful person who you will tell in the registry office. " And you will suffer in this relationship you will be, and not close, which so diligently tried to marry you.
loneliness is possible with a husband
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When the thought of marriage will visit you without outside intervention - only in this case you can start a targeted search for a man. Especially since now it is not a problem at all, it is worth looking around and you will probably notice the waters, which for some reason you didn't pay attention at all. Act the will of the heart and do not let others live your life.