More than once in this column, people sent their assumptions that dreams are the harbingers of something bad, terrible and dramatic. There are even different signs that "bad" sleep must be told on the morning so as not to come true.
We do not understand dreams, and we are looking for their connection with the reality of a dream. Gestalt therapy claims that everything without exception images of dreams is part of our multifaceted personality. And, as in the play, we see how these parts are led by negotiations with each other.
Here, for example, one of the anticipant dreams, with whom they turned to me:
"We are going with her husband by car, but in the area of Lenin, another car flies and falls into the river. I scream with my husband that it is Ivan (his friend). We stop, and my husband runs and jumps into the river, I have been writhing out. Then I see a husband, it comes out of the dark - one and all wet '.
If we apply the principles of gestalt therapy, described above, it turns out that the husband who rushed to pull out a friend from the car is some sides of the identity of the dreams. And a friend flying by car into the river is the same. Even the Lenin Square, cars and other sleep attributes are also some souls.
Based on this approach, it can be said that sleep reveals the horrors of control loss in front of her mistress. In some topic, she tends to lose control and fly over their own frames (this image of a friend who flies on the car into the river).
Another side is inclined to hold everything under control. It and she is in a dream, and the husband who rushes to the rescue, but comes out of the water wet and one.
By the way, the symbolically water image is feelings. If you look from this point of view, then men, male - it is connected with feelings, and the feelings of horror and panic. Men are those who "dip" with a dream in these experiences (both men in a dream - flew and jumped into the river).
I propose to reflect in this perspective. Sleep is not about someone and someone. Our dreams will take off and about us, trying when they removed conscious control and filter of experiences, allow us to say our own truth.
But, of course, I observed from the position that the most accurate interpretation certainly belongs to the author of sleep.
And what dreams of you? Examples of your dreams send by mail: [email protected]. The way, the dreams are much easier to express if in a letter to the editor you will write preceding life circumstances, but most importantly - feelings and thoughts at the time of awakening from this dream.
Maria Dyachkova, PSYCHOLOGIST, Family therapist and leading trainings of personal growth Training center Marika Khazin