Any woman knows how much a man can be offended by a simple rejection of sex, inventing a thousand reasons who are not related to reality. The problem is that many women refuse to be wrong, giving a man in his soul doubt in their own attractiveness for their woman. We decided to collect the most effective tips that will help to gently explain to the man that today's evening will not be languid.
Specify time
You should not answer the sentence of a man: "No, I don't want," it is too cruel. A man will assume that to offer later - just as meaningless, you still refuse. Or a partner can respond extremely aggressively. Give a delay, for example, tell me that you will surely delight it tomorrow or at any other time. The man already at this moment will cease to cheat itself.
The causes of a woman can be enough
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No rude
We continue to follow peaceful tactics and avoid any scandals even in the starting. In order not to provoke the conflict, refuse rugs and categorically tone - men often react in response very aggressively. Worst of all - to point out the shortcomings of a man or starting to make fun, probably, the best way to spoil the relationship simply does not exist. Control your emotions.
Do you have an alternative?
A great way and not to give up sexual contact, but at the same time avoid sex in a classic understanding. Often it happens at that unpleasant moment when the partner's sexual interest wakes up into the most peak of your menstrual cycle when a woman is about sex thinks last. Why not try to limit ourselves to manual caresses and oral sex? Rarely which man will indignant about this.
Notify your plans in advance
As a rule, agreeing to a romantic evening, we ourselves give hope to a man. Why not warn him in advance, bringing a significant argument in favor of just a good evening in a pleasant company, but not flowing into a passionate night. It is important not to replay here, but to be honest, why today I am not worth an intima, otherwise a man can take your refusal to part of the game, and your resistance can provoke extremely negative senses of a partner.