"Good day! With a young man, the first anniversary of the relationship is nearing, and I would like to arrange a pleasant surprise in bed as a gift. Tell me, please, anything original. Maria, 26 years old.
Dear Maria! Many women who are for a long time in relations or, on the contrary, recently met their love and those who want to preserve the novelty of sensations, begin to wonder how to make a variety of intimate life. However, not many are able to take the initiative as you, in your hands. Women fear that, offering something non-standard, they frighten their soul mate or cause a feeling of jealousy (if it comes to intimate toys). In this question, it is very important to be able to properly prevent innovation.
One of the easiest ways is pleasantly surprised by a man - use an intimate toy. So that the man does not see the "competitor" in your new "assistant", you will correctly beat the moment of their acquaintance. For example, select the erotic outfit of nurses, a sultry housekeeper or a playful student. Meet it in this image, demonstrating a new gadget when he returns home from work. An even more fascinating for a man can be a toy consisting of two parts - directly from the accessory and the control panel. Hand the remote control to your man, and leave the second part. Thus, you will allow your beloved to control the situation, which will definitely determine his pride.
If your man is categorically against the use of any accessories in an intimate life, arrange a "journey" to an exotic country, for example, Thailand. To do this, create a proper atmosphere - order home of Thai food or visit the restaurant where you can enjoy the appropriate menu, and gently hint at your chosen one that after dinner it will be waiting for an even more pleasant immersion in mysterious eastern culture - Thai erotic massage.
Once alone with a loved one, take the essential oils and proceed to the massage, not forgetting, of course, to reset the clothes in advance and weaken your loved one. Thai massage technique is called the "kisses of the body" for its gentle and reverent gliding body by the body, where all the most desirable "fetishes" are involved - women's breasts, hips, buttocks, pubis, the touch of which give a man's real pleasure. Lubricate them with aromamaslas or lubricant and slide by them by the body of a man.
Especially erotic, the fulfillment of massage looks in front of the mirror when a man can not only feel your touch, but also to watch the spectacle from the side, awakening fantasy.
To create an even more romantic setting, you can transfer the action to the shower. At the same time, do not forget about your own security - it is better to provide in advance to have a non-slip surface or have a solid plot of support.
Ekaterina Lyubimova, leading Russian sex coach