It is pointless to argue with the fact that a patriarchal device of family relationships prevails in Russia. Some women gladly take this system and are trying to fill themselves with an unknown "female energy" by landscaping at home and care for children, others fall under the psychological influence of power men and permanently reside in a state of stress. If the family does not add up in the family, women are difficult to leave them first due to the existing deterrent factors. Material and emotional dependence on the partner, fear of criticism of others and thoughts about the damaged psyche of children - this is not all reasons. In this material we will tell about why it is important to learn to appreciate yourself and your life.
Habit beautiful live
For happy photos on social networks, where the family is posing on a luxurious villa during rest, serious conflicts and the lack of actual living together can be hidden. Guest marriage is a model that successful people often choose with a pretended career. A vivid example was a couple of Vladimir Vysotsky and Marina Vlady - Lovers lived in different cities. True, a conscious decision does not equally agree to live as neighbors on one territory. Sometimes in the permissiveness of the man reaching what mistresses are in a common house and do not hesitate to have a legitimate wife. Believe me nor jewelry, nor travel nor a solid account in a bank - nothing makes sense, if at night you cry in the pillow from resentment and pain.
Do not break your heart, trying to resurrect the foolish love
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Psychological influence
Emotions make us weaker. The man whom we love can manipulate our dependence for your own purposes. The phenomenon of Abyuza is widely known when one partner shows physical or psychological violence against the other. And often, the "victim" imperceptibly falls under the influence of the "rapist": everything begins with the control of social networks, attempts to penetrate all areas of life and limit contacts with close relatives and friends, and only then goes to extremely financial restrictions and insults.
Unrealized plans
"Well, where will I go?" - Touch the next girlfriend, telling about their accompanied relationships. If you do not have a constant income, your own housing or the opportunity to take it into rent, close friends and relatives, to leave the relationship is really difficult. Fortunately, the system of crisis centers is developing in Russia - according to the "Thomas" portal at the moment and × 59 in the country - familiarize yourself with the list. Even if you do not have personal funds, you can come with children to such a center and find temporary housing there until you set the financial situation.
Stretch your hand help - Start care about yourself
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Example of others
Parable about a woman living with 40 cats jokingly walks among all young girls. True, no one thinks that it is better to surround himself with cute creatures and take care of them than to marry the first oncoming from "hopelessness." Forget about the age of "Old Virgin" - modern women can marry at 18, and in 50 years. The decision to bore himself with the Uzami marriage with the beloved should be mutual, and not depend on the planks imposed by the society. Do self-education, go to workouts, often choose people, then your fate herself will meet you.