The Glafira Tarkhanovi as if not from our time: both appearance, and a name, and most importantly - physical rejection of lies, cleanliness and a special understanding of femininity. She serves in the "Sachirikon" theater, removes a lot, and he also has time to bring up three sons. And it remains in this case graceful and young, which it saw it millions of TV viewers of "Dances with Stars".
- Glafira, have you been configured to win?
"I always loved to dance and even engaged in dancing in childhood." But about the participation in the show hesitated. I did not understand until the end, what awaits me, although in principle I for experiments and always ready to learn. My attitude to the project has changed the first meeting with Evgeny Papunaishvili. I did not count on a lot, I wanted to just try my strength, but Zhenya immediately said: "We go to the final. I know the formula of success, and if you are with me, then we will do it. "
- Zhenya is very impulsive, hot man and an obvious leader. Didn't it scare money?
- No, I have experience in communicating with such men. And my husband, and the artistic director of our theater Konstantin Arkadyevich Rykin - rather hot, emotional people and leaders. By the way, the show organizers asked me to be more active and take a star position in our pair. But, in my opinion, a woman next to a man-Georgian sweeps his energy and get out forward very stupid. And in the acting profession pull the blanket for ourselves - a bad tone. It seems to me that a woman is normally in the shade, when the partner leads, especially in ballroom dancing. Yes, and in life too. It's just now, alas, not often found. When someone from the judges said that Zhenya looks colorful, I adequately perceived it. He is bright, better moving, and expressive means he has more in dance. Pare is important that it is a couple.
- And in the theater you did not come across a partner who would pull the blanket for himself and did not notice the partner?
- Not. It seems to me that we have an excellent troupe, and Nobody canceled Stanislavsky system. And if someone is pulling the blanket for yourself, it does not annoy me, I will take my own anyway. I will do it to notice. I'm not a quiet mouse. And here it could be more active, but did not see in this sense. I did not rush under the show, but remained faithful to myself, and it is more important to me.
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- When did you find leadership in yourself?
- I have always been a leader in school. At the Institute held the position of the head of the post, that is, everyone knew everything about all and helped. Maybe after graduating from Psychiatry, I had my dust, because everyone is not possible for everyone. Now, I probably, I have so much activity of the house with three children, which at work or in some social activity I am rather resting and occupying a neutral position. I have no need to prove something to someone.
- And how do you, in principle, have to compete, exams?
- I love to do my job well and I can not tolerate competitions. But exams are quite another, because you answer for yourself. If you fail, you know why if you win - too. For me, scary to sum up the partner, the team. Such perfectionism and complex of deals.
- You trained very zealously. I won't call in the evening - you go to dances. Are you so?
- Well, how?! If I accepted this invitation, then naturally is ready to post a hundred percent. I have a Satiron School, where in a different way and can not be. And we mostly rehearsed at night, after the performance.
- Do you have your own ways to unwind from hard work and recharge your energy?
- The main rest for me is a dream, even if in a car or before rehearsing for fifteen minutes. I sleep in different positions, in all conditions: whatever music play and whatever the light either burn.
- How do you manage to deal with such self-dedication and to give family time? Or during these periods, everything is built otherwise in the house?
- Certainly. For the time of "dance" I pulled away from home a little. Because I was simply physically there. The only thing, I still dove the boys in the morning, and we have seen short. But everyone understood that this situation was temporary, you just need to suffer.
- But besides school, the sons do something? You seem to be interested in childhood ...
- We tried such a program with root. And now changed tactics. I see his resistance when I ask if he wants to return to some of his classes. He went to the dance, threw, then we started again, but in the end he
I showed that it does not attract it. The coach said that if he liked a partner girl, he would want to dance. Well, it means, he has his own way, not like mine. Sport also did not cause him positive, but her husband still practices boxing with him. An individual approach is very important here.
- You live in a boyish society. Sometimes come out of it?
- With mom, periodically meet, with friends, and this is such a sweat. With my mother I can talk on the phone hour, two (laughs), tell about all your events in life, she is about his own. If I had a daughter, everything would be completely different. But I can not even imagine how. I look at little girls, they seem to me with young women. And it's great. But with boys, in my opinion, easier.
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- Now you can talk with mom with your mom, and in youth you seem to have conflicts ...
- Yes, in adolescence. Then I turned it, and now we are the best girlfriends with my mother. Sometimes it even seems to me that I am an adult, than she. Mom and now adventure in life. She easily believes in everything, internally young, very active. I have a sister of Illaria, she is eighteen years old, and brother Mironu - twelve.
- Illaria and Miron, and your children are not ordinary names. Why is that?
- Probably it was important for us (although we did not immediately realize this) that nothing connected with these names. I have no friends of Korneev, Gordeev, Ermolaev. Therefore, with each of them a separate story. But with Sasha, for example, certain associations arise. I have Dad Sasha, and men also met with the same name.
- And how did you relate to your own?
- For me, it is from my birth, so no discomfort has caused. I liked that I was alone. And then, probably, the fact that while I am one actress with the name of Glafira has played. Someone may have a bright pseudonym, and I have a name. And everyone immediately understands, and even without a name.
- What do your parents do?
- Dad and Mom studied at one course, then were actors of Muzoncert, put puppet performances. Later, Mom graduated from the Faculty of Psychology.
- Surprisingly, but you just repeat her way: Three children and even the second psychological education.
Yes, but Mom is much later on this path passed. I already had it all about my thirty years. (Smiles.) I fulfilled my definite program, and then let's see.
- So you had a program - three children?
- No, it happened. We still live, not knowing what awaits us tomorrow.
- Are you ready for the expansion of the family?
- I calm towards it. But, of course, there must be certain material conditions. They worry me like a mother and as a woman.
- At the same time, you initially did not seek the oligarchs ...
- With my leadership qualities it is impossible. A man who earns a lot is usually a boss at work and at home. If I will be obliged to everyone, I will have to ask permission for each step. It does not suit me at all.
- The issue of the championship of earnings in your family is not sharp?
- When there are no filming, Lesha (actor Alexey Faddeev. - Approx. Auth.) Earns more than me, that is, in such a period is the main earter. In the small theater he has a salary anymore. And with the shooting, unfortunately, there is no guarantee.
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- You, in my opinion, one of the actresses that says that you can live on the salary of a husband in the theater ...
- It depends on the purpose of man. In addition, I am from a poor family, I understand everything perfectly and not put forward exorbitant requirements. Lesha does not control my financial expenses, completely trusts me in terms of shopping, and I don't control it.
- In this case, there are two options: one - yours, and the other - break out at any price from poverty ...
- a person donates something. Household circumstances I can suffer. In addition, Moscow is Moscow, one way or another, if not in his profession, then somewhere else I will find earnings, if it is strongly strained. And if the person with whom you live, the soul is not so, here you can not do anything. For me it is much more important, because you see a husband every day, you wake up with him every morning.
- Did you have serious love before Lesha?
- Yes, in the eighth grade. But we did not even have adult kisses, just a youthful attachment. And then his interest in me is UGAS, and I was very hard for it. He herself, of course, because we did not have a relationship, and I did not prevent anyone. I remember that much cried and slept. It was a teenage period - emotions, hormones. And it seems to me that these experiences and pain walked me from some unnecessary connections. After all, the desire to like and attract the opposite sex still works at the physical level. But I was very closed for a long time.
- You somehow said that in the future husband, Alexei Faddeev, you were important than certain qualities. What exactly?
- It is important for me that next to me was a man who could admire. When one girl told about her husband: "Oh, he has a belly!" - I realized that it was unacceptable for me. And she, apparently, it causes a feeling of comfort. I liked that Lesha appearance is not typical, it looks like an Italian or Spaniard. I was struck by his honesty, decency. And today I am attracted to other internal qualities. But it is difficult to formulate words. I just understand that Lesha is absolutely my man. And physiologically, and externally, and on the mental warehouse, and for some kind of energy. We mostly coincide and vice versa. And this, I think, and gives our every day interest to each other, because you do not quite understand what to expect. Every time I never cease to surprise that he has a different opinion, not like mine. And with us, I confess, the clashes occur due to the difference of interests.
- And the jealousy in your relationship is present?
- Here, in principle, it does not arise. I told me one girlfriend that for the relationship correctly, when people don't even joke on this topic. For example, "I like Brad Pitt like!" It is clear that it is a flirt, but in every joke there is some joke.
- You are both bright, spectacular. You can not talk anything, but not to notice how someone looks at your second half, it is impossible ...
- We usually do not go together in society. We work in different places, we meet at home. I do not remember that someone looked at me at Lesha. True, once we went to Minsk, where we were fined for the fact that we switched the road to the red light. For some reason, the travel service was shattered in the car, and with me - outside, while the traffic cop gave me a card with his phone. I showed her Leshe and asked: "I do not understand why he gave me it?" - And Lesha explained to me. I have such things to explain, because I am very straight in life. In my opinion, I should not cause such feelings in men, because I do not broadcast anything, even clothes that I am a free woman you can care for.
- But you do not dress old-fashioned?
- I dress as a large mother, as a rule, very comfortable. Of course, if it is some kind of output, then I am preparing for it specifically. And in life, even rarely look in the mirror, because with the birth of children a lot of home care appeared. But my profession is still periodically obliges me and in terms of appearance. Probably, it is important for her husband that sometimes I look different. Summer more to beautiful outfits has, a woman in me is still alive. (Laughs.)
- I read your phrase: "Femininity is not a valid story" ...
- recently producer, and, in fact, the financier, but he was the director on the project, spent samples and told me: "But can you be married?" I asked: "What do you mean? Real women are very restrained in their femininity. And from this they have it even more, because they do not protrude themselves, but they have some kind of self. Or do you need a flirting woman, honey? " And he replied: "Yes." And for me it is just not femininity, it is something superficial, apparent.
- Lesha does not allow you to be filmed in bedside scenes. And how do you feel about them?
- When my husband and I took this decision, I understood that I was still uncomfortable in such scenes. But in general, I am a convinced person, and if it were not for Leshin's position, perhaps I could persuade me. But I think, then I would have regretted everything about it.
- Are you so shy?
- In fact, I am more free morals, but since this is a position of her husband, I accept it. I respect my man and love. Including that he does not say: "Remove where you want, if only I brought money." Then this is the sale of your woman.
- Does he have the same position?
- I look at it easier, but I know that such shooting is still very excited for him. Probably, I would otherwise treat this, be with me next to another person.
- But after all, the novel can spin in people and without such scenes ...
- Yes. And anywhere if a person wants, if for some reason he is ready for new relationships.
- You and your husband do not see each other's work. Why?
- Yes, do not look. First, we have different theaters. From the fact that I will express my opinion about a particular performance, it will not change, and my attitude to my husband too. Therefore, it's easier that Lesha was in his theater in itself, and I am in Satirikon in my own. Secondly, we work in different genres. I am moving mainly in melodrama (although there are exceptions as "treason", for example), and Lesha - in the militants. This also shares us.
- Do you really not be interested to see how another played? After all, for each of you, the work is important and, in theory, it should not be indifferent to the second ...
- So, for us both more importantly, we do not touch this topic. But Leshina Parents are watching all my paintings and it come to our performances.
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- Lesha in the theater, like you, very interesting big roles, but in the movie the situation is different. It happens that the jealousy of this kind destroys the family.
"Maybe I just looked a little more lucky, because there were" Gromov "who were loudly shot, and" treason. " Fortune in our profession plays a very important role. In general, this is a difficult topic. But we somehow get along with it. Lesha has their own ideas, their dreams, and I fully support it in this. We have a different attitude to work, to art, everyone goes to its own way.
- "Dancing with the stars" showed how the audience love you. Does it pleases it?
- Certainly. I do not work for glory, but I am pleased that new doors are opening in a professional plan, and not only. Once again I went to the "dance" training session and already there I realized that I forgot the shoes. Immediately rushed back, well, it was night. I brake traffic cops, it turns out, I drove without headlights, which, of course, is dangerous. And I had nothing to say, except: "I forgot my shoes, and I now have" dancing with the stars. " The traffic cop asked: "Dance?" - And let me go. I turned on the headlights and after fifteen minutes later it was at the rehearsal.
- From this episode, you can make another conclusion that it is better to always tell the truth ...
- And I don't know how to lie at all. Or just give up and say: "Make me what you want." (Laughs.)
- When today we meet with honesty and decency, it already touches and surprises ...
- And in someone causes irritation, because they live according to other rules. But I say no longer about literal honesty, but about spiritual.
- Psychological education helps you better feel and understand people?
- I think it works in itself, unconsciously. But this does not mean that, talking to someone, I "include a psychologist", I start a person to analyze and hang clichés on him. But if I can help close, friends with their problem, at least just relieve it, divide the feelings, do it. It seems to me that we are very alone in our problems. Therefore, it is important to feel that someone comes to us.
- The actors do so in the psychology of the characters that it should, in theory, help and in life ...
- No, they do not understand anything. The acting game is completely different. But the actors often play in life. And I do not accept it. For me, this is a lie. Although, of course, we are all not perfect, but I consider it bad tone to include an actress in life.