"Good day! My young man constantly insists on alternative ways to make love - anal sex, oral. Traditional vaginal sex no longer gives him a trembling sensation that was at the beginning of the relationship. But, frankly, I am not an active supporter of other forms of intimate intimacy. Tell me, can I somehow return the interest of a partner to vaginal sex? Lyudmila, 27 years old.
Dear Lyudmila! Indeed, many couples face that classical scenarios in class of vaginal sex lead to a purely technical execution of "marital debt". Yes, you, of course, get a pleasant feeling, but you do not have to wait for something new. That is why partners begin to seek fresh experiences, trying to diversify their relationship with oral or anal sex, intimate toys, etc.
Such a variety is definitely useful for maintaining passion, but there are a lot of ways to surprise the partner, mastering the art of vaginal sex, giving your man an unforgettable feeling that he will be desired again and again. There is a mass of technician, allowing, for example, to recreate the effect of oral affection to their vagina: the effect of three rings, vacuum, a tight virgin entrance and many others. In addition, you do not need to limit yourself in movements. After all, in addition to familiar "up-down", "back-forward" there are more than 15 types of female frictions, giving twisting, sliding, pushing the feelings of a gender member of a man. Fortunately, now there is a possibility not only to collect general information on the Internet, but also to get specific professional advice on special trainings.
At the same time, remember that sex itself is not all. Just like we, women, men are very sensitive to the caresses of erogenous zones. To deliver your male even more pleasure, use the secret potential of its erogenous points, which, by the way, he has about 30 major and more than a dozen additional. But do not attempt to "wake up" all his points at once. Explore their step by step, turning calas into an incredible adventure.
I want to share a little cunning that will help you keep your loved one. To do this, it is necessary with the help of tenderness and affection to "encode" a partner, performing the same action for several days. I will explain. For example, before and after passionate sex, light circular movements for 2 minutes stroke his belly. Repeat the "procedure" for two weeks, and better than the 21st day (it is during this time habits). This not only delivers pleasant sensations to your partner, but also "put" the secret "code lock" to it. The secret is that without the usual stroking partner subconsciously will not feel from the proximity of such a complete range of feelings (excitement, satisfaction), and you will know only you and any other woman.
In addition, "coding" can be used to initiate a partner from one "secret" touch. For example, each time during its orgasm, spend the back of the palm between its buttocks with light wave-like movements. And in the future, when you are alone with him and want to hint on an intimate intimate proximity, just touch in the same way to his buttocks with your hand.
However, remember that it is important not to overdo it with "coding", because you probably need a "programmed" lover, but ready and for sudden romantic deeds and manifestations of tenderness.
Ekaterina Lyubimova, leading Russian sex coach