This dream came to me by chance, but I can't help but bring it here as an example. This is a visual illustration of how the dreams reflect our attitude towards themselves, the current situation or the events of the past. They also reflect the transformation of our beliefs.
Today's example is a dream with a young woman on the eve of her birthday. Actually, that is another holiday. In childhood, for many - this is a reason for joy, warm words, friends, gifts. In adulthood, we continue to celebrate it with the same way: friends and relatives say warm words, give something, drinks on the tables Others, there is a sophisticated approach to the holiday: expensive, noisy, fun. But if you look at this bustle, we celebrate the fact that every year we are more and more years, our life decreases, the longing of us, anxiety, annoyance from missed opportunities. This is no longer children's joy of being, the birthday is the day existential issues to yourself.
So the letter of our dreams begins:
"In my birthday, which since the most powerful manifestation is depreciated in me."
I will not give everything a letter, it is important to understand its mood at the end of a further story. On this day, she waited for a call-congratulations from Mom, but did not wait. Her grandmother called, which is several years a parliamentary in the Mom and daughter talks. And the extensive language began to explain that the mother of our heroin of the dreams believes that only money is needed from her. It is important to say that this is an adult mother and daughter living for a long time separately earning money on their own. Our dreams got angry and said that all this is not going to listen and will no longer allow these manipulations with the causing sense of guilt to his address that it will be ready to meet and communicate with mom only after joint meetings with a family therapist with which they will build a new, clean Dialogue with each other.
Now her sleep:
"After that there were a lot of dreams, one remembered: I look at the girl walking on the wires over the railway, brightly, spectacularly balancing, she conceived something, after a while I am at the station, I see a turmoil, with some kind of corpse, Cover in black package. I understand that the girl jumped from the wires under the passing train. I feel guilty, I'm scared, suddenly someone knows that I am guilty. When I woke up, it was the opposite sense of guilt - as if I had done something important and valuable, and the part was left in me, which caused so much drama and pain. "
Perhaps the most clear hint that she sent herself to herself. Woman balancing on wires is she in the sphere of relationship with Mom: Every awkward and careless step is a drop or blow to the current. But in the dream she herself stands and watches the next catastrophe, even blaming himself in a fall from the wires. At the same time, this is part of her soul, dependent on manipulations that exposes the hostess of the hazard, finished his way as a dream responded to revealed and built his borders with his grandmother and mom.
We wish her good luck and perseverance in this process.
And what dreams of you? Examples of your dreams send by mail: [email protected].
Maria Dyachkova, PSYCHOLOGIST, Family therapist and leading trainings of personal growth Training center Marika Khazin