Of all the doctors we pass at least once a year, a dentist and a gynecologist cause special excitement. The first managed to scare us in childhood, and it's not so easy to get rid of the unpleasant early memories, and even if you are sure you go to the reception, the excitement does not leave you. But as for the female specialist, everything is not so simple here. There are many excellent specialists, and yet at least once each falls at the reception to the gynecologist, which simply "turned over your world." About how it happens, and what to do if the behavior of the doctor hurts you, we will talk today.
"Why didn't you give birth?"
With such a "specialist" there was almost every girl. Not only are you addressed to "you", it is also forced to justify that you should not do that. And any of your problems with which you contact will be "justified" by your "reluctance to perform a natural function".
"Well, you yourself launched"
Any, even a standard problem with reproduction authorities, which is resolved by a course of drugs, is served as a tragedy of a universal scale. "Where were you before?" Or "Well, now I don't know what to do with you" very popular phrases that spoil the mood for several days.
Do not hide what you worry
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"Where are you looking?"
The most unpleasant when being in such a vulnerable position has to listen to unflattering comments not only in your side, but also towards their partners or husband. "If you carefully followed my husband, would not come with inflammation" - almost a standard phrase with which the gynecologist goes far beyond professionalism.
Is it possible to defend your rights?
Even need. Especially since you have the right to high-quality discomfort.
"I feel uncomfortable"
There is nothing galloping to immediately report my excitement. If the doctor is a real professional, he will definitely come out and will hold all the manipulations as comfortable for you. Otherwise, this is not your doctor.
"I ask you to close this topic"
Never suffer the unpleasant feeling in physical, nor in the emotional plan. We often worry to be uncomfortable and call the doctor's wrath, but who is their rights, if not you? You will immediately feel more confident.
"Let's go through the list"
For every reception, we go with a certain list of questions that the specialist is simply obliged to answer, but does not always want to do this, referring to the big place, or what is even worse - starting to scandal. Stop and go to the Cabinet of the Chief Doctor to write a complaint.