So, you finally bought tickets and chose time - you go to your first kink / bdsm party. You may be nervous or not to know what to expect, and even after reading the rules of the event and the dress code, the impression may be a little stunning. In addition to the fact that you have a beautiful outfit and toys, here are some of our best tips on what to expect when you arrive at your first sex party.
Rules and Dress Code
The most authoritative events will have a set of rules and a dress code that will be sent before the start of the event. Read the rules very carefully, as the clubs comply with them and delete you from the event if you show disrespect. Look for events that will have third-party observers at a party and / or protection. This means that the event takes care of you! Some events will also have a mandatory orientation at the beginning of the party, if you have not been present on them before. Orientation is mandatory and is a great way to get used in the environment before the party will be in full swing.
Dress codes vary from event to the event. Most parties will have a list of options from a formal suit to almost weightless clothing. Rarely you need to wear something sexy or perverted, so if you are nervous about what to wear, usually a good outfit will consist of ordinary clothes and unusual accessories - for example, a suit on a naked body and stickers on the nipples from the store For adults. Dress - code exists in order to create a mood for the event, and not in order to exclude people. If you are uncomfortable in underwear or naked, do not worry about it! You will receive an idea of how people dress up during your first party, and you can decide what accessories you want to pick up next time.
It is better to abandon alcohol if you are for the first time
Goodwill - Law
Kinki-party can sound frighteningly by name, but in reality this event does not look like a conventional party with a mass of alcohol and indecent behavior. Most people are extremely friendly and welcome to meet new faces. Unlike your conventional cocktail party or dinner, the group will be much more mixed. Various classes, age and demographics are mixed and refused to have their daily images to become free overnight. Often, a politician and a truck driver meet in the same evening.
If you see someone with an interesting outfit or a highlight, he will almost always be happy to tell you about it and answer your questions. Just make sure you wait until they finish playing to talk to them. You are likely to leave your first party, knowing much more than at first, and probably you will also have several new friends.
You need to drink moderately
Depending on the event and its geography, alcohol and drugs can be resolved, and may not be allowed. In Russia, drugs are prohibited by law, but in the United States and European countries, some of them are legalized. However, the excessive use of alcohol is always disapproving. You will notice that in parties where it is permitted, most people prefer not to take part. The reason for this lies in the fact that in order to start the games consistently and safely, it is better not to drink before them. You should remain sober at your first party, as you do not need anything to fit nerves and relax as soon as you see how everyone is animated.
I wear myself
You will see how people appear with rolling suitcases or clothing bags full of sex toys and other things. Furniture for games, such as benches and crosses, is provided with a venue for the event or organizers of a party, and everything else will be at you. Many party lovers will gladly show you what they like in their toy set, and will explain why they like them. Excursion to the toy bag is a great way to start explore what you would like to try.
Do not be surprised if you see people in the game
Nudah and sex
Depending on the event and local rules at the party will be attended by nudity and sex. Most newbies report after their first parties, which was surprisingly normal to see people with bare and interacting with each other in different ways. The situation at a party is so respectful and open that no awkwardness is felt. You can see things that have never seen before, and this is part of the pleasure of visiting a party!