Stupidity, nearby, naivety - often these terms are associated with people with the concept of "directness". But is it really really possible to give us the very naivety?
Far from stupidity
The immediacy is the ability of a person to act on the inner order, listen not to the voice of the mind, but to feelings and emotions. The ability to act without unnecessary pondays and doubt.
This does not mean that the person is stupid. On the contrary, if a person is able to properly build his life and relationships with other people, being directly, then from nature he is far from stupid.
Psychological unloading
What a person is serious about the situation, the more thinking about it. Often people begin to represent how the situation will be turned into what other people can take. And often it leads to the fact that people screw themselves, worry on trifles. From here and more psychological burden. Immediately helps to pay less attention to what is happening around. Not take care of each little thing
Excusancy and thoughtfulness are good in business, in science, in politics, but in ordinary life sometimes it is worth trusting the voice of the heart and not to calculate absolutely every step. This applies to the romantic relationships that a priori are built on the feelings, and not on logic.
Impenetrable armor
Direct people pay less attention to what they expect and what others say about them. On the path of each person they are envious and "evil tongues", those who will say: "You will not come out." Such "poisonous" people easier to ignore and not notice when they do not notice their words. When you can act as you want.
Less disappointment
Thinking everything in advance, we already expect something to be preparing something. And when our joyful plans do not come true, we are upset, we begin long and tediously arguing, and what was the mistake
Less fears - more happiness
Direct people make decisions faster. Act, and not think about the million times their actions. They have fewer fears and prejudice to the situation and people. The fewer fears, the more comfortable the person feels both psychologically and physically.
As the English philosopher and writer Gilbert Keith Chesterton said, "the man is far from stupid:" The old one who saves children's immediacy is - such a person saves not only his own soul, but also life. "
In no case does this mean that you should be irresponsible and do not think at all in advance the sink actions. Not. You only should be easier to treat the situation and do not focus on your expectations and opinions of others.