Our dreams are eloquent than a set of words, explanations and reasons that we come up with for themselves and other people.
Dreams expose our reality to us, that is, what we see it and are experiencing directly like small children.
It would seem that such events like a wedding, name day, New Year, the birth of a child even must cause joy in us, delight, lunizing, but it happens that it is not. Then the true attitude will have to hide. And this experience comes to us in dreams.
Here is an interesting example of sleeping our readers:
"Today I dreamed of a strange dream. He stretched, as it seemed to me, the whole eternity and brought to the frenzy. I dreamed that I would get married. Today is a wedding. The holiday is prepared, guests gathered. But I suddenly understand that I can not get married for this person. There's no way I can! Then I go out to the guests and tell them: "Hello, dear guests! Today we will celebrate with you not our wedding, but our parting. " But the holiday took place. But it did not please me. There was no place to go from the feeling of pain and emptiness. From the full inclusion of the groom's glances, it became more terrible and hopeless. And most of his sleep was pursued by these very pain, emptiness and hopelessness. "
It immediately draws attention to the fact that during the wedding, it would seem, the experiences should be the other, not at all pain and emptiness. This is the most significant key to sleep rays.
So, the initial promise of sleep is hopelessness and pain about parting, which is not similar to parting.
You can dream on the topic. Perhaps our heroine is in a relationship with a person, with whom everything is defissible, but in the depths of the soul, she knows that their relationship is doomed. And this process stretches and, according to its expression, "brings to the frenzy."
Also draws attention to the character that the image of the groom is some kind of unclear. At least, our dreaming does not say why she cannot marry this person. It is impossible to say that it pushed it. And it would be interesting to know.
It is also worth saying that the image of a wedding in fairy tales and mythology is not only the union of a man and a woman, but also a symbol of a male and female junction in us.
In this case, the sleep of the heroine on how the male and women's soul cannot be together. Her female side is soft, emotionality - does not know how to get along with male features. On this occasion, it is experiencing hopelessness and emptiness, as the female and male began at the same time, regardless of whether you are a man or a woman.
The absence of a male in us means passivity, the inability to make actions, to achieve goals, be clear and decisive, and female - the inability to be in emotional contact with others, to be sensitive and soft.
Both of these parties are important for each of us, both are formed due to the fact that the father and mother are raising us, helping us to form femininity and masculinity.
Apparently, the dream suggests our heroine, which is important to pay attention to the side of itself, which she rejects. Or a male image in her life, which left it.
It is important to deal with these experiences, not to join them in yourself, but to give them a place in life.
It is possible that this will lead it at all to another wedding - in reality, with a loved one and full of quiet moments.
What does your dream tell you? Send your stories by mail: [email protected].
Maria Zemskova, PSYCHOLOGIST, Family therapist and leading trainings of personal growth Training center Marika Khazina