Slept dreams have the biggest force. Just like the relationship that could start and did not begin, or stopped the tragic chance. Like a story about Romeo and Juliet. It was often necessary to read the opuses on the themes, which would be if Romeo and Juliet still got married. It is possible that after 30 years of marriage, a very devouring and embittered Juliet would live on Alimony from Romeo womanik. But since the continuation did not happen, it is considered to consider this story the most beautiful history of love.
Approximately the same thing happens if marriage is marked with an icon of style, with an idol. It is one thing - to adore him at a distance, considering carefully siphot-coated pictures, and is completely different - to live under one roof, come across everyday life and solve daily, including conflict situations. And despite the fact that Madonna for the whole world is a luxurious and eccentric star of all generations, Paris Hilton for the whole world is a secular lioness and style standard, and Monica Bellucci is an icon of femininity, life shows that men go even from such dazzling stars.
Olga Krainov
Each couple, whether it is an ordinary family with a middle taste or well-known to the whole world of publishing the public, faces about the same periods of life in marriage. All pass through crises, through the periods of cooling, through periods of turbulent passion, understanding and special sensitivity or almost icy indifference. And most importantly, for each couple in any country, in any family there is the same law: there is nothing eternal. If you want love and affection las forever, for this all life you need to do something.
I love to give an example with a garden. When buying a house with a beautiful garden, a rosary and well-kept blooming flower beds, few people will occur to believe that in such a beautiful state it will be forever. Each sensible person understands that for maintaining it in the same state, efforts are required. And what if you do not apply, roses will devour some fault, the lawn will tarn the barns or yellow without fertilizers.
But why so often women who get married and being very happy at the beginning of relations, do not understand that in order for these relationships to be preserved as beautiful, trusted and passionate, also need to make efforts? And what if, their efforts, do not apply, then over time, in itself, the "beautiful garden" will take offeads, will cover underwhelms and will begin to fall from a lack of care and attention?
Each couple, whether it is an ordinary family with a medium-sized or famous for the whole world of the public, faces approximately the same periods of life in marriage
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Nothing happens eternal in itself, but the fact that for us is expensive, family and relationships require constant attention. Those who forget this simple thing, unfortunately, are faced with the fact that another partner may want to experience these strong feelings again. And now it is not only about men who go to young girls, they give birth to a family, they give birth to a joint child and re-experiencing youth. Speech also goes about women. Today, there are very frequent cases when adult women who have already growing children suddenly see that the husband loves beer anymore on the sofa than life itself. And they go to more ambitious, more attentive and caring men, leaving their husbands to indignantly on the same sofa.
To reduce the risk of such a development of the situation, it should be remembered that the relationship in the family is what you constantly need to take care. It is necessary to add bright weekend to the impenetrable life, joint strong impressions, work on keeping passion, attraction to each other, the ability to talk to each other, be heard and understood. If this is not done, the relationship is quickly becoming "good-neighborly", and then any spark on the side can become explosive. No need to bring the situation in the family to sensual exhaustion. The art of every woman as a wife is to bring interest to each other, mutual attraction and interest in each other throughout life.
As Simon de Bovwar said: "Find a husband is an art, and to keep it - a profession."