Good day, readers.
I recently sent an interesting dream, repeating repeatedly. A young woman, about 36 years old, sent him to decipher.
"I have been dreaming a dream several times lately that I am at my wedding. But always alone, but in a beautiful white dress. Never dream that I have the fiance. In life, I have never had no men. "
Of course, sleep is transparent. Bride at the wedding without a groom. Of course, from the first words it is clear that sleep about female loneliness. In addition, sleep demonstrates that our dreamy does not even represent the image of a man who can be near.
Not all women and men are obliged to create relationships, create families and give birth to children. For some, this is a completely conscious choice. But often it happens at all unconsciously. Women cannot explain why with external data, kindness, beauty, mind and the ability to take care of them alone, while everyone around falls in love, meet, get married, raise lovers. In general, we are in demand for men. I do not know whether such a choice is realized from our heroine. Does she have a goal ever to create a family?
If these vital tasks are still present, it is important to determine what she sees its companion.
It is about this that her sleep says: next to her there is no place for a man. And this "place" is not a physical value. Most likely it is her need to create reliable relationships, assumption that someone can be with her, and who is it? What is a person?
Even the most inexperienced in psychological theories is known that the choice of the future satellite of life is largely influenced by the girls with her father. Close, warm, reliable relationship with the parent will allow in adulthood to recreate reliable, durable, long-term relationships with a man.
If the father was not, he disappeared at some stage of growing his daughter, stopped the contacts or during the life of the relationship with her daughter were tense, conflict, at a distance, then it postponing the imprint on the desire of the girl, and then a young woman, to have a relationship .
Often, as a result of such experience, a woman comes to the conclusion that it is better not to have a relationship in principle than to be with a partner unsafe for her. Any relationship is unsafe called, where we feel that we can leave for any time, to betray, cause pain, make something against will, conflict, cause moral or physical damage.
For our dreams, such a dream suggests that it would be nice to deal with those whom she wants to see next to them.
And if it is difficult to answer these questions, it is worth dealing with the ideas about men at all. And also to answer a question that is based on its decision to be alone. It is possible that this decision is no longer relevant. And that our dreamy can tune in to create relationships.
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Maria Zemskova, PSYCHOLOGIST, Family therapist and leading trainings of personal growth Training center Marika Khazina