Within the framework of the project "IION INTERNET" on Rosantika radio experts in the field of fashion, psychology and etiquettes shared advice, how to behave on a date and how the outfit to choose for the first meeting.
Create the image of "Lady Like"
The choice of the outfit depends on the goals of the meeting. For a young girl who wants to get married in perspective, stylists recommend to stick to the image of Lady Like - in the popular TV series "Sex in the Big City" he personifies Charlotte. Of the more modern heroines, members of the British royal family can be an example for imitation, especially Kate Middleton and her girlfriend.
"What is the basis of the image" Lady Like "? In fact, this is an image of an ideal wife. Very correctly selected color solutions. Minimum fitting, very clean, "edible" shades and most often pastel gamut or, on the contrary, saturated colors of precious stones, for example, emerald. Always very concise forms, which in no case can not discredit a girl, "said Alexei Sukharev's popular TV projectors, said the stylist and expert.
Alexey Sukharev
Pants postpone for later
If you go to the first date, then no stylist nor a psychologist will never recommend the girl to come to him in pants. Psychologically, it always puts it for one level with a guy.
"Yes, it is not bad, it all depends on the type of man whom the girl is looking for himself. But on the first date, the girl in pants can cause someone a negative reaction. At the same time, it is not necessary to forget that after all these advice on the spring - in the cold it is more important to follow health, "said Sukharev.
The main thing is natural and comfort
It is important and guy, and the girl on the first date is comfortable. A date and so enough nervous event, and it is better if you don't have to urge yourself and straighten something. And, of course, it is worth avoiding too provocative and dramatic color solutions.
"Avoid the combinations of black with red, black in the total version and even more so khaki color, - recommends stylist. - Deep brown - also not the best option. Ideal - white color and free cut shirt, as well as "edible" shades. To remember to present the palette, remember the colors of the desserts. Such shades are always well combined with delicate maiden appearance and set up a man to the right way. On romance. It is important".
And you do not need to make a date for a very long time. When a person spent six hours at the mirror, it is always very noticeable.
"We need lightness, even if some negligence - it's easier to fall in love with it, and when you see a person in front of him who is too responsible for meeting you - it scares," Alexey Sukharev's stylist warns.
Slecent etiquette underwater stones
Before the first date, it is not bad to remember the important rules of etiquette. Does girls be late for dating? How to behave if the meeting takes place in the restaurant? What give gifts and take compliments? About this listeners Radio Romantika told an expert on etiquette Albina Holgov. She paid attention to the details that often reveal ignorance to the ladies of the rules of secular etiquette.
Albina Holgov
For example, everyone knows: if there is no doorman, then the door to the restaurant always opens a man. But who should come to the room first, not everyone knows. It turns out that if the entrance door to the restaurant is deaf or with glass, through which nothing can be seen, then the man comes first.
"If there is no danger, the first girl goes," Albina Holgov said. "But if nothing can be seen, you can't know what is happening in this restaurant now."
Another common mistake when the girl sits face to the hall. According to the rules of etiquette, a man should sit on the sofa: so it is more convenient for him to communicate with the waiter and at the same time observe what is happening in the hall. This is an important aspect of security.
"The girls love to settle down on the sofa, and the man, respectively, sits on the contrary. This is one of the most common markers that the couple does not know the rules of secular etiquette, - the expert notes. - The man must sit face to the entrance and the hall to control the situation. He also relies first to go to the table, push the chair and suggest a girl to sit down, then she will definitely sit there, where she is laid on etiquette. "