Olga Arntgolts: "Every child is a person"

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In Olga Arntgolts there is something from the XIX century. Intelligence, self-esteem, tact quality, rather rare today. No wonder in her veins flows blue blood - the great-grandmother actress was the Freillina of the Russian Empress Maria Fedorovna.

Olga Arntgolts: "We have been engaged in the search for our ancestors. The grandmother and dad are preserved some documents written by a complex, unintelligible handwriting. Something we understood something. Where did our last name come from what she means, we did not know. I tried to find out the dad, and later we, communicating with foreign colleagues, the Germans, but in vain. Then, in many archives, the times of the Great Patriotic War stood a vulture "secret". However, what is not available to ordinary people opens in front of the magical word "television". When we were offered to help on one of the TV channels in search, we gladly agreed. Then it turned out that the prababid on the father's line was indeed a nobleman, the Freillan Empress. "

After you have learned about your noble origin, something in consciousness changed?

Olga: "Yes, perhaps, nothing. Partly we knew about it before. We were told that we have a sister and appearance Aryan, and the nature of Nordic. In Schepkinsky School, where we studied, there was a German course. And our professor, Maria Evgenievna Velichova, joking: they say, you, girls, probably, the door was mistaken. "

How did parents raised you up?

Olga: "When my mom is asked about this, she replies that there was no specific training program, there was only love. Love parents to each other and to us, children. There were traditions of dinners and dinners when everyone was going for a large table, we celebrated holidays together, birthdays. There were hikes to theaters, museums, concerts of symphony orchestras. And we and my sister liked it. We had a reading family, a huge library in the house. "

Sisters Arntgolts brought up in love. Photo: Gennady Avramenko.

Sisters Arntgolts brought up in love. Photo: Gennady Avramenko.

Hindus argue that it is a woman who focuses a man with the energy necessary for him for accomplishments and conquests.

Olga: "I agree. The house is a place where it should be calm and cozy. In no case is it a continuation of the work, there must be rest. Forces come from this and want to go further. And a woman needs to feel defense. A man performs conquests and feats for this - so that the family felt comfortable, it was something to eat. I will never whine: "Sit at home, I need your warmth." The man should work, for him it is important. "

Do you like to equip the house?

Olga: "Yes, I am inventing everything. Not yet resorted to the services of specialists. Perhaps a professional designer would say that somewhere it is not a single style, in something I made a mistake. But it is not important. The main thing that we like - people who live in the house. It is likely that it will seem strange, but I do not like all sorts of interior things - all this little thing that stands, dust and which it is impossible to collect when moving. I like large spaces, mining furniture. And to be a huge library to the entire wall, like my parents. "

Now you have love for books?

Olga: "When something similar to what they write about what they write in the books, I woke up interest in literature. You begin to recognize yourself, situations. It hits emotions. And when in the eighth grade, they force the "Hamlet", you simply, you can't realize that the meaning of these spiritual metasies and experiences.

You will not make your children read?

Olga: "I will! But, perhaps, I will try to do it somehow differently, without a pressure. I just become imperceptible to slip the necessary literature. "

Sisters Arntgolts and Vakhtang Beridze. Photo: fotodom.ru.

Sisters Arntgolts and Vakhtang Beridze. Photo: fotodom.ru.

What else, in your opinion, is necessary in the upbringing? What do you need to know the child?

Olga: "I believe that the awareness of the world, an understanding of the life of the child is still given over. Already from birth, much laid. Parents only guide, develop. In the tiny baby already feels character. All children scream differently, all their ways to draw attention to themselves. It so happened that I now communicate with many babies. There was some lucky period: my loved ones - a native brother, cousins, many of my classmates - children appeared. This is what you understand, what are all these kids different! Each of them is a person, universe, microcosm. There is nothing more interesting than to observe how little man grows. How he begins to think, grab, cling to life. It is surprising, just consciousness turns over. "

Was something that you did not know about babies?

Olga: "When suddenly it comes to your life, you know that you do not know anything. It is said that it is impossible to look at the fire, water and how another person works. I would have added here: watching the baby. This can be done by day. After all, everything changes every moment: he grows, looks, comprehends the world. "

And on parents a big responsibility ...

Olga: "Someone thinks otherwise?"

Some shift care of the baby to the nanny, and they themselves continue to live their lives.

Olga: "Well, it happens so."

Now, with the advent of the family, you probably will not work so actively?

Olga: "I do not like to make up. Maybe it's bad. But I used to that even in the most minor things sometimes everything goes wrong, as was planned initially. What to argue about the global! The most important thing is that everyone is healthy. "

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