Lipa Tetherich still in his youth was tuned to great love. Today she is a happy wife and mother of three children: Laurel, Melissa and Nikon. The posts of the TV host, in which she shares funny lifehams of his family, as not to bother on quarantine, inspire her subscribers. In an interview with Lipa, it was shared by the fact that it remained behind the scenes: there were difficulties and fears, and heavier experience - but without it, and you will not understand what is real happiness. Details - in an interview with the magazine "Atmosphere".
- Lipa, you are creative to come to everything, even to home affairs. I am sure that the day of lovers is also interesting noting.
- This date is February 14 - we celebrate, but not like Valentine's Day. In my youth, I dreamed of my second half. But I understood that it was not given real love for everyone. Not only by virtue of luck, but also a personal choice. Someone prefers to build a career. And with this I was fine, I sang in the group "Girls". We were popular, especially in the youth environment. But I am the person who is important to give love and feel like a loved one. The heart should work for a hundred million revolutions. (Smiles.) And media has a reverse side. Not everyone seeks in the "artist", which for some reason it is customary to be represented by windy creatures, wife, mother of their children, a partner for life. It should have all coincidence. And I made a request to the universe, painted a young man with glasses on a sheet of paper, with a briefcase. I also went to the Matron, asked me to give me some kind of sign when I meet my love so that I would not be mistaken, did not look at her. And when we met Artem, my future husband, I asked: "When is your birthday?" He replied: "February 14." Here he is a sign! (Smiles). Therefore, on this day we celebrate the birthday of my beloved husband, St. Artem, as I call it. My colleagues know me as a man of cheerful, lung, creative, but they do not live with me. (Laughs.)
- Is everything really scary?
- No, but any medal has a reverse side. And if a person knows how to have fun at the full coil, he will also be upset to the full coil and get upset, sad. I have been told: "You have an ideal family!" Yes, I want to share positive emotions with the world, and therefore I post a family photo in the social network. But how do you know what is happening in the interval between how I do these posts? (Laughs.) We also find out the relationship, like other couples, applying certain efforts to save our Union ... I remember, for the first time I gave Artem on my birthday's birthday, embroidered with my own hands.
- So cute!
- Yes, a deed for a girl from show business. (Laughs.) I wanted to do something special that would please him and he remembered me. I also composed poem: "Pooh the swan on the pillow, let the worship of you in the Ushko: 'My Artem, you are the most cute, sweet dreams to you, love!" Such an intimate, romantic gift. Then I ordered a plate of my sketch on a porcelain factory. My husband works in the energy industry. And there was a picture: sit, hugging, cat and hare, and the signature about the fact that while he gives cities light and warm, I keep the comfort in the house. Then the children were born - and there were already other creative congratulations: the learned poem, played scene. We enhanced with Artem and bricks built their lives. I received a higher education, learning to a journalist, he defended the diploma, then the candidate. I began to work on the radio, TV projects appeared. The husband was moving through the career ladder and now takes a high post. In terms of career, he is more successful than me, but it is logical, because he had no leave to decree.
"We met in the supermarket. I met views, and I involuntarily drew attention to the set of products in his cart. Bachelor"
Photo: Georgy Cardava
"By the way, in one of the interviews you mentioned that Artem did not want an artist's wife. How were your relationship been able to work out?
- We met in the supermarket. I met views, and unwittingly I drew attention to the set of products in his cart. Semi-finished products. So, bachelor. He asked the seller about something - and I liked his competent speech. Having done a circle of shop, we collided again in the Fish Department, smiled at each other, spoke. Already together, he offered to drink tea, and we somehow easily and naturally continued our communication. Discussed a variety of topics, Artem turned out to be almost my peer (a year older), told about his future work, about the fact that he receives the second higher education, and mentioned: "I don't care what the girl is engaged in, if only the artist was not!" And at this point I already understood that I really like it. And the next day (I'm not joking!) I entered the institute again. (Laughs.) I took an academic vacation, because I could not combine work, touring with study. But I knew that our group would not always exist, and you need to get a higher education, a meeting with Artem was spurred me.
- At that time, apparently, it was the main task so that he did not see your clip somewhere on TV?
"Yes, and I did not understand that his girl and an artist on stage is one face." As a result, almost so happened. We have already met for quite a long time: there were also courting, and romantic correspondence, and walks in the parks. And once, Artem invited me to a restaurant, in Moscow-City, he only opened. We go, and meet - Andrei Gubin, the top artist at the time.
- And he grows with you ...
- It doesn't just greet, fit to hug. Asks: "Lipa, well, how are your tour?" Artem then said that before he had flashed some suspicions, and then the puzzle was formed. But by that time he had already known me as well as a person. In addition, he did not have far-reaching plans to my account. This I have already drawn in my head ...
- Wedding?
- What wedding! I thought our children would go to what circles! (Laughs.) After all, I coincided like me and guess: glasses, a briefcase, a serious profession. At the same time, Artem also has a wonderful sense of humor that conquered me.
- And nothing that would alert, pushed off?
- Not. Moreover, we are very different. Artem - as ice, and I - like a flame. Do you know, there are such special mittens from welders? Here is a husband just the owner of such mittens, which he can curb my energy. I am very free and, if I hadn't met him, I guess I would have been challenged the world, I was looking for myself.
- And they became an exemplary wife and mother of three children. Although many creative personalities claim that life is such a boredom! ..
- No, I do not agree. And many creative people are also creatively suitable for homemade. Another thing, they are not created to do only by it. For example, Yulia Vysotskaya beloved by me: Cooking is not the case of her life, but an adored hobby. She just has a blockbuster in the kitchen! I also prefer with love and inspiration to approach home duties. I'm bored to do it just like that. But if I had no favorite work, I would probably feel unhappy.
"After the birth of the first child, I thought that I would never decide for it. But the appearance of daughters cured me from fears"
Photo: Georgy Cardava
- You originally wanted a big family?
- Yes, since childhood I represented a picture of an ideal family to gather together, arrange holidays. Probably because I had no such family. Mom divorced her father early with his father - I was a year and a half, and my brother appeared on the light. She never shared why it happened. Just said that it was the right decision. I was engaged in different circles, my mother always paid us attention to her brother, and I did not feel something deprived of the lack of my father. Awareness that you grow in an incomplete family comes, the code you get into society. As soon as the school begins to ask: "Who is on our subsidies, who has free breakfasts?" You understand that something is wrong. But the real revelation came when I myself became my mother, Lavr was born, and I understood what was deprived of childhood.
- Any psychologist will say that your hot desire to meet the very real love for life, comes from childhood.
- Yes, it is 100% so. But I also wanted to be an artist. But at that time it seemed easier than to meet the guy of his dreams. (Laughs.) It is important not to confuse love with passion that will quickly disappear. Because the person in which you fell in love will be to be spoiled, he may not succeed, get sick. Love helps to overcome everything. Perfect if, after years, it is possible to save at least a few percent of those sensations that you have experienced in the candidate and bought period. And in those moments, when you are not satisfied with each other, quarrel, remember what you were when they were just met.
- Here he is a secret of a happy marriage!
- Yes, I try to develop this ability. It is not always possible. Artyom with Artem thirteen together, and each of us has a bad mood, and problems at work, some internal conflicts. But I configured to save our Union. Despite the fact that sometimes I hear from others: why to endure? This is so increasing! It is much easier to break the relationship, starting others from a clean sheet than to fix what you already have. Family life is like the historic center of the city, which must be saved.
- Artem helps you in domestic affairs, with children?
- Yes. Artem helps me in many ways, probably, I inspire it. For example, during Quarantine, we realized that for some reason the delivery was going on for some reason. Why not try bake bread? And we are already competing, who will better get a chiabatta. Moreover, during quarantine, we both moved to online work. Artem Meeting, negotiations that no one canceled, and it is necessary for children to noise. But even in these circumstances, he helped me a lot. So now I want to say: "I'm sorry that I criticized you. I was wrong. You really do a lot. "
- Three children - is your general solution?
- After the birth of the first child, I thought I would never decide for it. I had very heavy, emotionally uncomfortable childbirth. They saved the child, saved me. After that, I became Aerofob, three years could not go to the plane. It seemed to me that something terrible would happen. I had an unscheduled caesarean section, I experienced a terrible shock. And before that, it was configured to give birth at home, naturally. I was observed at the best at that time the center in Moscow. Preparing for childbirth, learned to breathe correctly, made gymnastics for pregnant women. And Artem went with me to courses. My midwife, with which I passed the pregnancy, was supposed to come to me home to help at the crucial moment. We missed time, and I got too late in the hospital. And the fact that my midwife was accompanied was the wrong decision. It is like two mistresses in one kitchen. There is a doctor who received a medical education, he is responsible for you, and there is another person who in his own way sees the process and whispers to you ear: it is not necessary. The situation was extra. I do not remember my childbirth badly, I lost consciousness, through the fog heard: Save the baby ... I made a cesarean section, after which I was restored for a long time and physically, and morally. After all, I went to courses, I studied the whole process and knew how important it is to give birth to myself. As a result, just the most important thing I did not. Now many media girls share their personal experience, they were observed in the same center, everything went well. Perhaps I was not lucky. But, in my opinion, such a responsible business must still trust professionals, doctors who know how to act in abnormal situations.
- How did you still decide on the second child?
- At first I was even scary to think about it. Lavrik smasted. I thought: "There is one child - and good." And then he began to ask for a brother or sister. And at that moment I was so great all in work! I remember came from the "New Wave", where he was leading, such a charged, happy. And then the son says: "Mom, I renewed: There is such a Hollywood diet, you need to eat oysters in September and drinking white wine. And then the baby will appear in the family. " I realized that he was really important. The son went to school, and so there will be a big difference between the children. So we would be indicatively set off with Artem in one Moscow restaurant there are oysters - and the diet worked. (Laughs.) These were completely different childbirth, other sensations. The birth of a daughter cured me from fears and experiences. I finally added feminine energy to our family. And in such a powerful quantity! It would seem that such a little girl - and with her appearance it became much warmer, cozy. And when after a short time I learned that I was still waiting for the third child, I was surprised and was delighted. But first of all I looked at: when the next "new wave", I will have time to come into shape. (Laughs.)
- This festival has such important for you?
- "New Wave" has always been a dream for me. Another when I started working on Muz-TV, followed her and made work within the festival: was the leading disco or direct ether. It seemed to me this very beautiful history: Pines, Jurmala, songs, there were always the coolest rooms and beautifully dressed leading. Once I came to the tree, breathed the smell of the bark and mentally asked: "Let me on the stage!" And when after a year I got to the "new wave" as a lead, you can say, I took a dream in my hands.
- This year, because of quarantine, everyone was canceled?
- Adult "Waves" was not, but there was a children's. Igor Yakovlevich Krutoy not in vain wears such a name, he is really cool. For me - a superhero must create good. The pandemic touched everyone, and she hit the artistic workshop very much. At that moment, and we, and the audience lacked positive emotions. The great merit of Igor Yakovlevich is that the children's "new wave" was allowed to be carried out - of course, in compliance with all the rules. There were so many work invested to bring the participating kids, but it was like a sip of freedom. So much joy brought this holiday!
"It seemed to me that it was a very beautiful story: Pines, Jurmala, songs. One time I went to the tree, breathed the smell of the cortex:" Let me on the stage! "
Photo: Georgy Cardava
- Some new work formats during quarantine opened? Many artists became bloggers.
- In this situation, I am more viewer. Now the blogger has acquired such a scope that you need to be very legible. The appearance of such sites shook all, and professional leading, including those who have a blogger "take away bread." The viewer has the opportunity to choose - tired of the TV, the same face, here's new. But what I can not understand is a dismissive attitude towards artists who have given a scene for many years. I hurt to read such comments. These people their skill, many years of labor deserved the right to go on stage. I do not understand why there are no respect for the age of the artist and his work. Yes, let "Margarita" Valery Leontiev thirty years old, but this song is cool and in modern arrangement sounds unlikely! If you want novelty, there are other sites. Come in Tiktok and look.
- And the son already says phrases: "Mom, you are behind your life!"?
- Not. I'm talking to him so. Lavra thirteen, and he is a superserry young man. Dress up in an adult. While his classmates are sitting on social networks, he reads, engaged in chess, argues to political topics. I want it to be stronger, cooler. And he wants to be my dad, probably who argues with me not at all by age. I suspect that it is difficult, but in another sense, will be with Melissa. Now my daughter is four years old, and she cheered up. She is even faster and creative me, and it is so strange when you see your "mirror". A fountain person, very creative and fondant, choreography, dancing, acting skills - everything turns out! I recently introduced her to the performances of the Moiseev ensemble, the dances of the peoples of the world. She saw the "Cossack dance", now asks Sabli. Homemade creativity with children is a reflection of my profession, because when in schools or mugs give tasks, we are fulfillment. Remove the plot about the gnomes is not a problem! Arrange the performance - please. We have some suitcases with costumes for children. If we learn poems, we read them with an expression, like on stage.
- Here is a lifehak, as an artist not relax on quarantine.
- Yes, the artist can not relax, do not forget that this profession is with takeoff and falls, and it is necessary to competently distribim the distance. When a pause happens, remind you that this profession does not imply a happy measured fate. Do not fall into depression, do not lose heart, wait for your o'clock. The most important thing in my opinion is to achieve respect for colleagues to be considered a professional. Let at the moment you do not lead a super-stroke show, but you remember about you, you are afloat - and I will definitely happen something good.