From the letter readers Womanhit:
"Hello! Three months ago, I broke up with a guy with whom was four years. Relationships were terrible. He checked me, we swore about this and on others. After parting, he tried to return the relationship, but I did not agree. Girlfriends tell me that he is not worthy of me. I agree with them. But when he makes another attempt to return everything back, thoughts climb into his head, and suddenly, and maybe try. How to get rid of them? I want to put a point in the relationship once and forever. "
Hello!
Put the point after the long relationship is really not so simple. So that it happened faster and passed most painlessly, try to do the following work on yourself.
First, you have already found the strength in order to interrupt the relationship that were destructive for you. Try to understand where you were taken from these forces than fueled, what they restrained. Maybe it was supporting girlfriends or your positive attitude, and maybe some kind of prospect in the future. Dut this resource. It will help you feel more confident.
Next, think about what was in this relationship positive, which is negative, what you liked, and what is not. What would you like to "pick up" with you, and what to leave in the past. Positive can be remembered about the time spent, the skills that you purchased in the process of communication with this person (the simplest thing - better began to cook), or the quality you have revealed in yourself (for example, the ability to choose men's ties;). All this may come in handy in the future. Reference about what these relationships have taught you, I mean what life wisdom you purchased.
And finally, the final stage can be a farewell letter of the former beloved. A letter that will never reach its recipient, as it is not intended for him. Write in it all that you think - and good, and bad. And most importantly - at the end firmly and confidently write: "Goodbye".
Dear readers, Mary Biryukova you still can send to the address: [email protected].