Recently, the column is increasingly sent to the dreams, which testify to the active living in the loss, about the psychological process called "the work of grief". We disassembled it in past releases, it remains only to say that this is an unprecedented process, affecting all sides of the soul and the hardest feelings to survive to take care of a loved one. In most sentences sent, we talked about the fact that the grief still continues. But today they sent a dream, which illustrates the completion of this process.
"Hello. I ask to explain what my dream means. First a little about yourself. I am a widow. Three years ago I met a man, and we had a relationship. But after three years of life, he had to return home, and now we are divided by 5 hours of flight by plane. He does not want to let me go and offered me to meet every three months. I flew to him and spent 6 happy days there. And on my return, I dream dream, as if I am going with the late husband through a construction site and tell him that we are here for the last time, because the passage closes. And ahead of us a small window, and the husband tries to squeeze into it, but he does not work. Then I move it and go out to the street. Ahead is so beautiful - the space and the sky is blue, and he remained there. Tell me, please, what can me mean my dream and is somehow connected with my lover. "
We answer immediately on the last question: sleep is connected primarily only with a dream.
This dream is only about it and symbolizes the fact that she truly broke up with his gone husband. Pay attention to sleep symbols: Farewell to your husband, last time go together. It can not crawl into the window, as it is gone. He can't go back and live. But the dreaming continues to live, opens the door and goes towards the world. He will stay. This means that in some way our heroine was somehow connected psychologically with these relationships. Probably the process ended, and it is able to separate from the past and move on.
It is unlikely that it is directly connected with the lover, but probably his appearance in life is no coincidence. Love is the most powerful force, the current in the shower and the body, capable of awakening from the hardest depression and return paint to life. We fall in love, too, it is no coincidence. We use this power to come around, awaken. Look at the in love of a person: he or she flies, the eyes are burning, optimism through the edge, even diseases retreat. Perhaps a lover who is now on the other edge of the world, was needed for this awakening. But the main thing is that the dream of a dream said himself, which is capable of living and noticing the paints of life.
I wonder what you dream? Examples of your dreams send by mail: [email protected]. By the way, dreams are much easier to express if in a letter to the editor you will write preceding life circumstances, but most importantly - feelings and thoughts at the time of awakening from this dream.
Maria Dyachkova, PSYCHOLOGIST, Family therapist and leading trainings of personal growth Training center Marika Khazin