This year, Lyubov Kazarnovskaya celebrates the 60th anniversary. Of these, it is already 27 years old in lawful marriage with the Austrian producer Robert Ratsik.
"I remember when I moved to Vienna to Robert, began to unpack things, put their uncomplicated belongings in the closet,
With it, I get the bag from the suitcase, and in the bag - tights, duples or with a small arrow ... I got, I looked at and calmly so put in the closet.
- But why?
- To wear trousers.
- Why under trousers wear torn tights?
- Well, you know, we have so accepted, not to throw away, we wear them under pants, and in general, good tights are the same deficit.
Surprise on Robert's face was such that I was ashamed at the same moment. I lowered this bag in the trash can ...
Coming to the store, I tormented to buy more products, as we were accepted, - about the reserve: I bought two half-kilo cheese for us, Kilo sausages. Robert was surprised - why? It is necessary to take two sausages, well, four. Tomorrow in this store at home will have the same thing, why score a fridge? And everything will be fresh. Cheese is appropriate to buy 150-200 grams, apples - a few pieces ...
In the USSR, then there was a total shortage of products, an assortment - no. And so I got into a completely different environment. Roberta sometimes it was not easy with me, but there is one important feature in his character - he is a very open person, on the one hand, and on the other, if he sees that I start nervous, pour, he just departs aside. And after five minutes, he says: "Well, how is everything normal, everything is ok?"
It is so important in a man - the ability is not to be drawn into a starting female grumble. Of course, many ladies live in shortness, in some endless illusions, offended, short-lived, and there is it in me and continues to spill it sometimes.
I studied at my husband and eventually learned. You start to start or something unpleasant to remember - stop
Immediately, just leave this topic, drove!
Once Robert told me a very good parable. Two monks pass the stream, black monks that women do not communicate with women. And suddenly, from somewhere, the old woman appeared and says:
"Transfer me through the stream, I myself will not go." One
The monk says: "Well, let's post you!" Moved.
Moved monks further. The second endured, endured, then could not stand and says: "How could you? We have no right to concern women! " And the first responds: "Listen, an hour has passed, as I moved it through the stream, and you still carry it." Why continue to boil where it is not necessary, it is better to boil in a good place and use this boiler energy for peaceful purposes. I learned a lot from Robert, very much.
He is smart. Apparently, there is such a memory of generations ... restraint, aristocracy - in his family. In this regard, he is the son of his father, - Mother Robert Austrian, such a real, earthly, from Mountain Austria, everything should be "Ordnung" - in perfect order, but the father was with some softness and at the same time the ability to show character there at the same time Where it really needs, without changing the trifles. Robert is the same. When we lived together somewhere, I realized that I don't need to try
To manage it, and at first I tried, without leaving his charm, to establish something like a matriarchy, as, according to the existing stereotypes, is put on a real strong family. Even remember funny! It is accepted to assume that a man in marriage must need to raise, teach how he should live with a woman: so, and so. Fortunately, I pretty soon I realized that I don't have to teach him if I was myself, and not a demanding creature trying to stimulate my husband, to give him, then he would answer me much more courageous.
(...) When our son was born, Andrei, I learned how endlessly devotee and caring man my husband. Not a word, - I never heard anything like "Why I have to get up at night, why I have to do it, why I should not sleep, I need to work," Robert got up when the child woke up, took Andrew, brought him I, I fed him, and Robert worn him back. He fell asleep himself or not, one God knows. I see blue shadows under the eyes:
- Did you manage to sleep?
- What is the difference, most importantly you sleep.
Then changing the time zone, the first after the birth of the contract in San Francisco. "Mercy tit" 163 Mozart. I am in the role of Vytellia - a new role for me. Rehearsing actively. Due to the difference in time, the son has already been "Gul-Gul-Gul" at three or four hours. Robert took him and went for a walk until nine in the morning, "by this time I woke up, my rehearsal began at ten. He loves to remember this time, laughs: "We have been known from Andryusha all the homelessness of San Francisco, and they are us. What? September, warmth, luxurious weather for walks. "
There was a single cafe that worked around the clock. And the bums that have been acquired by this establishment, he was welcomed: "And you are walking too!" Robert took Cappuccino, the child slept, and when he woke up, he brought him to me, I fed, and they walked again. There were on my rehearsals: with the sounds of the magic Mozart, the kid, smiling, fell asleep. Never in my life I did not hear from him: "Why? Why should I do it? I am a man, I will not do anything, "while everything was washed away, everything was cracked ... Thanks to Robert, I know: a man and responsibility is inseparable concepts."