They hate married women, but no couple is insured against the appearance of a third party in relations. Many women deliberately become mistresses of married men, sometimes not realizing how many problems such a connection can bring.
Lover enters emotional dependence on partner
Imagine that you are preparing to a date with your loved one, spend the whole day in charges, and sometimes spend more than a few days to look perfect for him, because he is waiting for it from you, not from my wife. As a result, he calls and says that he will not be able to come, as they have experienced plans with his wife. And now you are no longer a joyful anticipation, but you are driving in hysterics. Be prepared for such "emotional swings."
What is the danger?
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You will have to hide your feelings and your man.
One of the main minuses of connection with a stranger man becomes the need to hide their relationships. It is especially difficult for women who are accustomed to everyone to do. You will not be able to go to the event as a couple with friends, because then a man can get into the photo, and the meaning of your relationship is that no one recognizes anything. It can seriously hit your self-esteem. Do you need it?
You can only hope for yourself
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You get only "remnants"
You will have to share a man all the time with another woman, and you will always be on the second roles, as the wife is always in priority. He will spend morning with his wife, and evenings with you, or vice versa, and not always in a good mood. Yes, and your sex will most often depend on the desire of a partner, because he has to cope with two women, and it's rarely some kind of man.
Maternity may arise difficulties
You do not build a full-fledged family with such a man. Even if you have a child, most of the duties will fall on your shoulders. It is doubtful that a man will challenge his wife, just because you gave birth to him. Hope for this alignment is not worth it. You can rely on the help of a married lover, but always remember that he can find himself entertainment "without cargo".
You are always on the second roles
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Your self-esteem will suffer every day
Love does not mean suffering, however, in a relationship where you are always the second, you can not get together together, a woman loses its value in their own eyes. For a man's attitude with a mistress - the type of communication that is impossible with his wife, often a man is cruel and categorical, because his wife has one, and such as you can be a lot, so he is not afraid of losing you. For any woman, such an appeal becomes a real test. Therefore, before entering such a connection, weigh all the "for" and "against".