Vazhinji, kana zvisiri ruzhinji, zvingaite senge zvisina kunaka mutsauko pakati pevarume nevakadzi, mumakore gumi apfuura zvave zvichikosha zvakanyanya, zvisinei, chiitiko chevakadzi vanoshanda pasi rese vanotaura nezveshamwari - kwete murume wese Anosangana nematambudziko kubasa, ayo avakuvadza anenge anenge mumiriri wechitatu wechitatu bonde rakanaka. Chokwadi chekuti zvinowanzoita chinetso chaicho kunyange kune vakadzi vanobudirira mumunda wavo, takasarudza kutaura.
Nzira yekukwira chinzvimbo chakanakisa thrny
Ehe, varume vanofanirawo kurwira "nzvimbo pasi pezuva", asi pfungwa ye "girazi 'rinonyanya kujaira kuvakadzi. Chinogona kuita kuti nhangemutange yechinhu chakakwirira umo murume nemukadzi vanotora chikamu ndechekuti murume uyu achange ari muvatungamiriri, akakwirira kwazvo. Vakadzi vagamuchire nzvimbo isina kuenzana yekuvandudzwa kwebasa kana zvasvika pakutarisira zvirokwazvo kutsungirira nebasa. Mukadzi anokonzera pfungwa imwechete yekuvimba, inodikanwa kubatanidza kaviri zvakanyanya kushanda.
Kugoverwa kwezvinhu hazvisi zvakaenzana nguva dzose
Chimwe chinetso kune vazhinji vakadzi vanoshanda mumakambani makuru mune yakaderera-inogadzira mhando yebasa. Pakutanga kutarisa, zvinogona kuita sekuti kwete zvakakwirira zvinodiwa kumukadzi mumabasa mazhinji anofanira kuzvifadza vakadzi pachavo, asi avo vanotsvaga kukudziridza uye vanowana, mumidzi haazotenderane newe. Enda kune imwezve chikamu chakabudirira chakaoma, zvakare, mukadzi anofanirwa kukwira kunze kweganda kuti aratidze kugona kwayo uye kukwezva kutarisisa kupfuura mumwe waanoshanda naye.
Varume kazhinji vanokonzera kuvimba kwakawanda muhutungamiri
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Kusarongeka kwehuwandu hwekushanda nguva
Sekureva kwehuwandu, vakadzi vanopedzerwa kubasa kwenguva pfupi, nekuti mushure mebasa rinenge kuti vakadzi vatumirwa ku "shuwa yechipiri" - basa risina zvakawanda, uye dzimwe nguva kaviri zvakanyanya kupfuura zuva basa. Panyaya iyi, mubairo wevakadzi kazhinji neyechitatu zvakaderera pane izvo zvemurume anogona kushandisa nguva yakawanda kuti azadzise mabasa avo uye, kazhinji, anogona kugara, achiri mukadzi kazhinji achakurumidza kumhuri. Zvinokosha kuti kugoverwa kwemabasa eimba hakusi kushanda - mukadzi anofanirwa kushanda chaizvo mumatanho maviri, nepo kubhadhara kwebasa rake kuchaderera kupfuura kweanoda.
Kusurukirwa muguta guru
Kune zvakare rutivi rwakatenderwa rweMenduru, kana mukadzi achizadza chinzvimbo chakaenzana nevanoshanda navo vechirume. Munguva iyo yaakatsvaga kutora chinzvimbo chepamusoro uye akapedza nguva yekuzvinyudza, mukadzi, sekutonga, anorasikirwa nehutongi hwevanhu vazhinji vari kutsvaga pfungwa diki yekuzvidzivirira kuti vanhu vazhinji kwazvo inokwezva kunge magineti. Mukadzi wacho anozova akasimba, haakanganisi uye haasheveri muhukama muhukama. Varume maitiro akadaro anowanzo kuvhunduka, izvo zvinoderedza hukama kwete. Semhedzisiro, bhizinesi rakabudirira Wanman kazhinji rinowanzana naye uye kubudirira kwake muguta rakakura.