- Lena, unotenda murudo pakutanga here?
Lena Lenin: "Kunchenjeri hweIndia kunoti kukwezva kwemiviri kunopa chishuwo, kukwezva kwemweya kunopa kushamwaridzana, kukwezva kwepfungwa kunopa kuremekedza, uye kubatana kweiyi matatu matatu kunogadzira rudo. Vladimir Magaakovsky akaona rudo neimwe nzira: "Rudo - zvinoreva kuti zvakadzika muchivanze kuti umhanye kuhusiku hwemotokari, inopenya ax, chop hutswo, simba rako rekutamba kwako ...". Wese munhu anonzwisisa rudo nenzira yake, uye avo vasina mukana wekuzviona, vakamirira iyi nguva inotapira nekunyura kwemoyo uye nekutya kurwadziwa kusiri kuuya. Asi sezvo varume vakangwara vasina kuuya kumhedziso yekusaziva, rudo chii, vamwe vanobvuma rudo rwekuda rudo rwechokwadi pakutarisa. Mashiripiti euphoria ekunzwa uku haana kufungidzira se tsaona munzira. Mhedzisiro yezvishamiso inodzivirira kudzora mamiriro ezvinhu mune zvese zviitiko. Uropi hwedu, husina nguva yekuchengetedza kudzivirira kwekudzivirira, kunoita kuti tivhiringidze, vasina kudzivirirwa uye vasina kujairika uye vakawoneka tsaona ". Dzimwe dzakanyanya kudeya hunhu tora rudo pakutanga kuona kwechipo chedenga. Chaizvoizvo, uku kunzwa kwekunzwa kunounza mharidzo yekusatenda kuti kuna Mwari webiology, biochemistry uye psychology. Sekureva kwe psychoanalysts, semuenzaniso, isina mhosva yekukwezva mumamiriro ekutanga kutarisa pane kusingazununguki pakubuda kwedu apo mavhoti matsva, anonhuwirira, mafungiro, manzwiro acho akawira pasi. Uye rudo pakutanga kuona chimwerwo chimwe cherimwe yemusangano wedu wekutanga nehupenyu. Sekureva kwevanhu vezvemagariro, rudo rwehukama pakutanga kutarisa zvinoitika kuvanhu veimwe nzanga. Mumwe nemumwe wedu wechidimbu chechipiri scans yekutanga ichiuya uye pakarepo anotumira kuti kuve kweboka remagariro uye "mutengo wemugodhi wemukuru nemakwenzi," maererano naani anofananidza anonyorera iye amene. Saka zvinoitika kuti uya watinonaka murudo pakutanga kuona, subconsciously anosangana netarisiro yedu yemagariro. Biologists vanotsanangura manzwiro eiyo euphoria, overity murudo, kugadzirwa kweEndorphin, mahormone, kuita saMaphetamu uye kukonzeresa kufara pabonde. Izvo zviri pasi pechiitiko cheiyi hormone pakutanga kwevadikani vanofarira kugara vachirasana, havagone kutaura uye kuita rudo nhamba yerekodhi kamwe chete husiku. Iyi mamiriro ekugara achigara, chishuwo uye kurwisa chinotsigirwa nemahomoni, ari pasi pechiitiko chomuviri akaisa zvinhu mune yakawedzera huwandu - saliva, lubricant uye kunyange kunhuhwirira kunonakidza. Naizvozvo, murazvo worudo hausi chinhu chinopfuura komisheni yekutaurirana nekuda kwekutsinhana kwemapirisita. Iko kukosha kwekunhuhwirira mumuchina werudo pakutanga kutarisa kwakakuraRuzivo kubva kuVenence uye kunzwa vanoona kuziva kuti vanoziva chete zvikamu zvina chete zveuropi, asi kunhuhwirira kunoongororwa neyekuchinjana, kudzora makumi mapfumbamwe nenhatu muzana! Uku ndiko kunoitika kunoitika kuti kunhuwa kunonakidza kwe pheromon chinhu chinonzwisisika mukusarudza mumwe angangoita mumwe wako. Kana murume akajairana nomukadzi, muhuropi hwake anouya, kunze kwevamwe, chiratidzo muchimiro chekunhuhwirira, chinoshandura, chinotungamira pakuchinja kwe biochemical maitiro mumuviri wemurume. Inowedzera huwandu hwe testosterone, iyo inosundira murume kuti ave bonde. Mumukadzi, nekugamuchira chiratidzo chakakodzera chinonhuwira, huwandu hweEstrogen hunowedzera, uye pakarepo hunowanikwa hwakanaka uye hwakurirwa nemarara emuridzi weanonhuwira. Chinyoreso chakapesana, chiri pamutsetse wemukati wemhino, unoona chete kunhuhwirira kwebonde, ayo, seminwe yeminwe kana emunwe maumune system yemunharaunda, ndega munhu. Vanhu vanozvinyudza vanotsvaga vanobatirana navo kusiyana nekisheni yavo, inovatendera kuti vave nevana vane hutano. Kunhuhwirira kunokwanisa kukonzera ndangariro, antipathy, mafaro, shanduko yemood uye kunyange subconscious kusaina kuvapo kwechimwe chirwere. Midzimu yakawandisa uye deodeorents inouraya kunhuhwirira kwechisikirwo kwemunhu uye kunokanganisa iwe. Asi rudo pakutanga kuona hazvizogari nekusingaperi. Masayendisiti anopokana kuti mumamiriro akadaro avanhu akanyanya kuwanda mahormone anotsamwisa mamiriro ezvinhu, achifadza uropi uye njere dzinopera. Iyi mamiriro mashoma inguva uye inogara kubva kumwedzi gumi nemiri kusvika pamakore matatu. Chinhambwe kana kwenguva refu kuparadzaniswa kunogona kuwedzera uku kunzwa. Asi zvakadaro uropi haugone kugara nguva refu kwazvo mumamiriro akadaro anofadza. Mushure menguva yakati, uropi huropi, uye huwandu hwechinyakare hwakavambwa kwavari uye kutamba basa rekutonga rakaderedzwa. Tsika uye shuwa yechinomwe harienderane. "
- Chii chaunopa zano avo vanotenda murudo pakutanga kuona?
Lena Lenin: "Kana iwe usati wanyadziswa mu" rudo "" rwekutanga kuona uye nenzira kwayo unoda kusangana naye, ipapo pano uine mutemo weChishanu "O". Yekutanga "O" - Vhurai maziso ako sewn uye nyatsofunga varume avo vane hupenyu hwezuva nezuva. Yechipiri "O" - Ipa zvakaoma uye kushungurudzika, nekuti hapana chinhu chinonyanya kutaridzika kupfuura mukadzi asina kunaka ane boka rematambudziko. Yechitatu "O" - yakasununguka kubva kubasa uye nekunetseka kweuropi, nekuti uyo anogara akabatikana haaone chero chinhu uye anopfuura nakagwinya. Chechina "o" - chenjera nezvezvimisikidzwa uye zvinonyorwa zvinomiririrwa. Uye wechishanu "o, o, dzidza, pakupedzisira, kupa usati wasvika! Uyezve rudo rwako rwepfupi-runogara ruchishupiso pakutanga ruchashanduka kuita chiripo, zvakadzama, pfungwa yekusaparadzira, kuremekedza, kushamwaridzana uye rudo. "