Bvumirana, vanhu vane zera rakasiyana nezvinangwa zvakafanana nehupenyu. Mumakore matatu, isu zvirokwazvo tinoita sechinhu chikuru - kuti tisvike sechipo chakafanana kana typewriter kubva kuKushambadzira, kusvika kune chimwe chikoro chakanakisa, uye zvese zvinongorerutsa kuyunivhesiti - wapedza kuyunivhesiti, tora chinzvimbo chepamusoro, kuti ubudirire kuroora uye kutaurirana nevana vane hutano uye vakanaka. Uye chete mumakore makumi matanhatu, apo chikamu chinonyanya kushanda chehupenyu kumashure, tinomira uye kufunga: Chii chatisiri kusangana uye chii chaungade kuita?
Zera rinokuvadza mu psychology
Mufundisi, zvinopokana kuti dambudziko remakore matatu rinosanganiswa nekuumbwa kwemafungiro ake, kana mwana azivisa kodzero yekuti "ini" uye unoreva zvishuvo uye kusazvidemba. Pazera ramakore manomwe, anoitika dambudziko rebasa rine chekuita nekutanga kwedzidzo yechikoro, pa14 - dambudziko rematambudziko, anoshanda uye makumi maviri neshanu - zviroto zvechokwadi uye zvibodzwa, mukuziva Kana munhu akararama hupenyu hwake nenzira kwayo. Iwe unogona kuona izvi muvana nekutya, uye muvakuru - mukuedza kuchinja mamiriro, chero chinhu kana chero dambudziko rinogona kukuvadza pane edu ekuzvivimba uye nenzira yakajairwa yehupenyu.
Zvekuita kana padhuze mune dambudziko
"Ini ndaida zviri nani, asi zvakazoitika sewenga," mutsara uyu unogona kuratidza kunetseka kwehama uye kuedza kubatsira munhu akaenderana nedambudziko risingaperi. Kana iwe ukaona kuti shamwari yako, murume, mwana, mwana afungisisa uye kazhinji achiedza kushandisa nguva chete, umupe mukana uyu. Batsirai munzvimbo dzepamba uye murege awasanure asina kuzadzikiswa tariro. Zvadaro, kana achikumbira, iwe unogona kugadzira chiito chitsva chekuita pamwe chete uye sarudza kuti matanho api anodikanwa kuti awane zvinangwa.
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Zvakakodzera kuenda kune psychologist
Isu tinogara tichiita chokwadi kuti iwe ubate chiremba. Chipopologist chinodiwa kune wese munhu, nekuti chero munhu achakuvara zvevana, chiitiko chehukama hwekutuka kana dissonance pakati pemukati mavo uye ekunze mamiriro. Panguva dzino, kutaurirana kuchakubatsira kutarisa dambudziko remaziso evamwe, uye wozofunga kuenda kupfuura nzvimbo yekunyaradza uye edza chimwe chinhu chitsva. Panguva ino chete, iwe wakakosha kunyorera kutsigirwa kwevadiwa uye kuvatsanangurira ivo kuti ikozvino wave kupfuura iyo yekuchinja nhanho.