Kuti aratidze fananidzo yekurara nguva ino, ini ndichakuudza zvishoma nezve mukadzi akamutuma. Panguva ino, nemurume wake, iye anotaura nezve kurambana. Yakapfuura nenzira yakakosha, yakadzika yekuzviziva uye kutsvagisa kuti vazviratidze pachako hukama ihwohwo nemurume wake chiitiko chekunyengerera. Tiza kubva pachako, kubva pakusuwa, kubva pakujeka kweupenyu. Chibvumirano chavo chinyararire makore mashoma apfuura aifanira kuumba kuvapo kwakanyarara pane ramangwana pamwe chete uye pasina kuvharira kuganhurira, kuti aronge nehupenyu hwekuzorora uye kugoverana hupenyu hwese, kugoverana zvakanyanya uye kune zvese zviyero a Hupenyu hwakanaka pamwe chete. Icho chete chibvumirano ichi chakaratidza kuramba chokwadi chechokwadi: kubva panjodzi, kubva pakuwana mapurojekiti matsva anogutsa uye anogashira mune basa, achifamba, mukukurukurirana. Iye zvino choto chedu chingaziva nezve chokwadi chekuti haikwane kuti uende kune kwavo zvido, zvinotoderedza. Chibvumirano chavo chinyararire chakavambwa pakuramba kwechikamu chezvishuvo zvayo uye maDrenards, asi zvino akawana uye akagadzirira kuzvigadzirira, kusanganisira madutu azvo, zvekutsvaga, zvinosemesa.
Kazhinji kune vakaroora vewanyori chinhu chakakomba cheki yemubatanidzwa. Rini, mune mumwe munhu, mumwe munhu anotora basa rekukudziridza, yechipiri, somutongi, anotora chinzvimbo chekuchengetedza kwechengetedzo yewayo akasikwa, anogadzira kupikiswa nekuchinja kunoparadza imba yavo.
Kazhinji, kutsvaga kweumwe wevakaroorana kunowanzoonekwa nevamwe sekutyisidzira kune yakapfuura chiitiko chakabatana. Uye kutya uku uye kutyisidzira ndiko kwakajeka kupfuura kwakasimba vaviri ava kwakabatisa mikana yavo yechokwadi, zvinangwa, zvishuwo nezvishuvo. Kubva ipapo nekufungidzira kuti kukura kweumwe munhu kuchaparadza chero munhu, sezvo kazhinji kazhinji zvakakanganiswa nevakaroorana vachatanga kutaura chimwe chinhu chavasiri kuda kutarisa kwenguva refu uye vakatsindimara. Nenzira, haisi nguva dzose kutyisidzira kwekuparadzanisa uye kuputika. Kusiya mumwe munhu ane simba uye kazhinji asina kuvhurika ruzivo. Pasi pekutya kupatsanurwa, vazhinji vachiri kuramba vachiramba hukama hwavo, vachiramba vachifamba kupfuura avo nenzvimbo dzinopwanya husina kusimba.
Nekudaro, kuziva uye kuda kwavo kutsvaga kwemufaro uye zvinoreva kuti dambudziko rako pachako, ichi chidzidzo umo mumwe nemumwe wevakaroorana angarega kuti abatwe nekuda kwekumwe uye azvichengete uye tangosangana nezvavanoda kuti vabudirire, kuziva uye kutsvakurudza.. Ipapo mumwe shamwari haaite muvengi wezvese maitiro, asi nemuongorori uye mumwe wake. Kana kuti haazove, asi iyi ndiyo sarudzo yake.
Nezve kurota uku kwezviroto zvedu:
"Chimwe chitima (chimwe) chakauya nechitima. Izvo hazvigone kuramba kuenda, sezvo nyika yakadonhedza pasi payo (ndinorangarira chimwe chinhu senge nheyo kubva kuzvitunha kana zvidhinha pasi pehundi, ndokuvhunika, ndokugadziriswa uye kudonha uye kudonha) uye kudonha. Ini ndinotarisa kubva kudivi uye ndinongo taura kuti chitima hachigone kuenda mberi, zvichanamatira zvachose. Panguva imwecheteyo, chitima changu pane imwe nzvimbo padyo, uye zvese zvakanaka nezvakarukwa
Pakutanga, ndaigara ndichirota kuti ndakanga ndanonoka kuchitima, kurumidza, zvimwe zvinhu zvinounganidza, ini ndinokanganwa, uye ini handina nguva ... ini zvakare ndakaitika kune iyo ndege kazhinji. Zvino handisati ndanamhanya kwenguva yakareba. "
Kurara kunoonekera. Iko hakuna mhosva, pane chirevo chokuti chitima chayo chiri pamabundu, muchitima chake chakanamatira iye akaramba achimanikidza. Uye iye haafanire kumurwira uye oidzoreredza, harisi basa rake. Basa rake nderekuwana nguva uye kugara pasi muchitima chako uye uenderere munzira yavo, hapana mumwe munhu achaita.
Dai vanhu vakaroora, muhukama, kana kunyange voga, vaiziva nzira yekuzvibata, kutevera chiratidzo chavo nemabasa avo, zvakanyanya kuwanda kwemakirogiramu asina chinhu nekutambura zvaizoderedzwa. Nekudaro, iyi ndiyo nzira iyo munhu wese anoita mumugwagwa wayo. Isu tinoshuvira rombo rakanaka kurota kwedu.
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Maria Dyachkova, Psychologist, mhuri yekurapa uye inotungamira kudzidziswa kwekuwedzera kwekudzidzira kudzidzisa Center Mika Kika Khazin