Kana uri murume pabonde haangoita sechikamu chehukama, asiwo seyakagadzirwa, ipapo muchikadzi, kufara uye kusvika pakuita zvepabonde zvakasiyana zvachose. Mafungiro emanzwiro anokosha kune vasikana, uye bonde rakanakisa rinoitika kumurume ari kuona mukadzi wacho mukadzi. Nekudaro, kwete musikana wese anokwanisa kuona nekuda kwechinangwa icho murume amuudza bonde. Takafunga kufunga kuti "mafoni" anofanira kukuzivisai mumudiwa wako: unzwisise sei kuti anoda "mumwe chete" kubva kwauri.
Funga nezve kuchengeteka kwako
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Murume pamubhedha anozvibata zvine udyire
Semutemo, murume, ane nyota yekukukwevera iwe pamubhedha anoenda kune zvese zvekuita kwechinangwa chako: Iye achakuudza zvaunoda kunzwa zvichazadzisa zvese zvaunofarira, asi nekukurumidza paunenge uchiwana iwe pachako munzvimbo yakatwasuka, Izvo hazvingatombofunga nezve chako kaviri-chionana - mushure mezvose, zvaisave chinangwa chake. Hazvina kujairika maitiro akadaro anotaura nezvemanzwiro akadzika kwauri.
Anobvunza mibvunzo yeupenzi
Pamwe chimwe chezviratidzo zvakatendeka zvakanyanya - mumubvunzo wekuti mukadzi aifarira. Mumwe murume aive akabatikana akangotadza kunzwisisa kuti wakadii waunosanganisira kuita izvi, saka banal yake "yaive yakanaka?" Iwe unogona kufunga nezvehunyengeri kana nzira yekusimudza kuzvivimba kwako. Murume ane rudo haangabvunze mukadzi mibvunzo - Akazvidza kwete iye chete, uye akatokwanisa kuongorora maitiro ako.
Maitiro aanoita pamberi uye shure
Iye murume waunofarira chete mu "mubhedha" haazombopedza nguva kwenguva refu, kutaridzika kwenguva refu uye, kazhinji, kukugadziriraiwo maitiro. Kazhinji, bonde rinoitika nekukurumidza, uye shure kwake murume angave ari mashizha, angangove akarara, asina kufunga nezve kuvapo kwako. Sezvaunonzwisisa, hatifanire kutarisira kunzwa kwakadzama kubva kune mumwe wake.
Munhu ane rudo haazombobvunza mibvunzo
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Haafunge nezve kubata pamuviri
Ehezve, zvinogona kuve mukureva, asi vaviri vaviri vanoronga hukama hwavo, mubvunzo wekuzvidzivirira, unokurumidza kubuda. Kana iwe uchifarira murume kubva pasimba kune akati wandei husiku, iye achafunga nezve kuchengetedzeka kwako kwekupedzisira, kana kusvikira iwe uchimuyeuchidza. Zvakakosha kuti tinzwisise kuti kurambidzwa kubva kune zvirwere zvisingafadzi uye nenyaya yacho neine nhumbu isina kurongwa ichawa pamapfudzi ako, uye varume havagone kuve pedyo.