Sekureva kwehuwandu, vanopfuura hafu yevanotambudzwa nemhirizhonga mudzimba kumhete dzechisimba dzinoramba kutora chokwadi. Zvinoratidzika kuva munhu kuti nguva isingafadzi muhupenyu hwavo yave kuda kupera, ichokwadi kusvika yakati ichida mumwe-waibata. Kutsvaga iyo Simba rekutyora hukama hwakaipa uye hunoparadza hwakaoma kwazvo, kunyanya kana munhu asina kuona muenzaniso wehukama hwehutano pakutanga. Asi iwe unokwanisa kuziva munhu uyo mune ramangwana angangodaro achida kukumanikidza, kunyangwe usati watanga hukama hwakakomba. Maitiro ekuzviita sei? Tichataura nezve izvi nhasi uye taura.
Iko hakuna ruremekedzo mune yako vaviri
Chaizvoizvo, kuremekedza, asi mumwe wake anoda iye, zvishoma nezvishoma panguva imwe chete kuti aremekedze iwe. Pfungwa yemumwe munhu akabatwa haambofi akasainetswa chete nekuti iyo ishe isingadiwi, chinangwa chayo ndechokuita zvakaipa uye kudzvinyirira mumwe wake. Murume akadaro ari matsi kumanzwiro emukadzi wake uye chero kugutsikana kubva kune mumwe wako anodzvanywa nekukurumidza - mushure mezvose zvaanazvo ane kodzero yekuvhota mune imwe chete.
Hapana kutaurirana
Sezvatakangoti, kunongova inzwi reTirana chete kuvhoti, saka, sekutonga, hapana hurukuro iri mune imwe vaviri. Pakutanga kwehukama hwehukama, murume akadaro ari kuedza kupomera kusvinura kwemumwe munhu anenge akabatwa naye, anozvibvumira rimwe zano, asi pakupedzisira, richiri kuita sarudzo. Ukaswederana iwe hwakafanana nemurume nemukadzi, vakasimba vanotsausa "vice". Pane imwe nguva, mukadzi uyu anonzwisisa kuti iye achakurumidza kudzvanywa.
Vanowirwa havana kukwana kupwanya hukama hwakadaro.
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Kudzora kwese kupi
Murume ari kuedza kumisikidza simba rake pamusoro pemukadzi, nguva dzose pakutanga kana anotanga kuzvidzora. Zvakakosha pano kuti unzwisise kuti kunyangwe pakutanga kutarisa, zvine mwero masaga ekutumira iwe emakumi maviri nemaviri, kana iwe ukazorora neshamwari, ndiwo wekutanga "mafoni" ekutanga. Munhu anodzidzisa kufarira kwake muhupenyu hwako senzira yekuchengetedza iwe uye chengetedza kubva mumatambudziko. Asi chinangwa chechokwadi chezvinangwa zvake iwe uchanzwisisa zvakawanda gare gare.
Phantom Vanoda
Murume-anodzvinyirira anoshamisa. Chero chipi zvacho maonero kubva kumurume wekunze kune mumwe wako ane trigger - haatenderi iyo pfungwa chaiyo yekuti iwe unogona kuchinjisa kune mumwe munhu. Kurasikirwa kutonga kune munhu akadaro - chinhu chakaipisisa chinogona kuitika. Ndokusaka zviri kukudziridza kusafunga kwakakwana kwechinhu chaicho uye kutarisisa kwakanyanya kutarisisa kwehukama hwako hwese nevamwe varume. Semutemo, murume ari mumunhu anonyengera kuratidza godo rakasimba mumwedzi yekutanga yehukama.