Hazvina kuvanzika izvo zvinetso zvakawanda mumhuri uko mwana anoonekwa, mumisikire pane hwaro hwekurwadziswa kweimba. Kugovana mabasa haana kupusa, kunyanya kana mumwe mubereki anoshanda. Zvishoma nezvishoma, mumwe wako anobatwa nezvinhu uye ane hanya nemwana, anotanga "kubuda" uye kubvisa kuneta uye kutsamwa pahafu yake yechipiri. Kunetsana mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro hakugone kudzivirirwa. Maitiro ekudzivirira kupatsanura mumhuri uye kubvisa kunetsana? Tichaedza kupindura iyi mibvunzo.
Usatarise dzimwe mhuri
Kazhinji kazhinji muyedzo wekuteedzera muenzaniso wehunhu hwamhuri dzinozivikanwa dzakakura zvekuti vaviri vacho vakatanga kufuratira kusarongeka kwehupenyu hwake, vachitevera vamwe. Zvakakodzera here kutaura kuti maitiro akadaro achakurumidza kutevera kutungamira kukuru, nekuti mhuri yega yega yakasarudzika nenzira yayo. Kana mune yako vaviri, murume ari kushanda zuva rakazara, uye shamwari dzine murume pachigadziko, ingave yakakodzera kutaura kuti hurongwa uye kugoverwa kwemitoro hakufanani zvachose. Zvinoda kubva kumurume wemanheru emazuva ese anofamba nemwana mushure mezuva rakaoma rekushanda, nekuti "shamwari dziri kuita" - kwete pfungwa yakanakisa. Kunyangwe murume akanyanya muromo achazotanga kutsamwira nekukurumidza kana gare gare. Rate mamiriro ako emhuri chaiyo.
Sarudza kuti ndiani ane nguva yakawanda yekuchengeta mwana
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Iko hakuna basa rechirume kana rechikadzi.
Stereotypes dzakadaro dzakagara zvakasimba mumisoro yevanhu vechidiki chete avo vachangobva kusika mhuri yavo yekutanga uye vanoedza kurarama sekunge zvinoita kunge zvakanaka. Munguva pfupi iri kutevera "vanhu vakadaro vepink vanoputswa pamusoro pechokwadi: Iye murume anogona kugeza ndiro, uye mukadzi anokwanisa kuve mutyairi mukuru mumhuri uye akabatanidzwa nemota yako. Ehe, zvakaoma kwazvo kubvisa nzanga kubva munharaunda, asi izvi hazvireve kuti haufanire kuedza. Izvi zvakafanana zvinoshanda pakurerwa kwevana - Baba vanogona kuve vakaroora vari mu "Amai" zviitiko kana zvasvika pakuchengeta mwana. Hapana chinhu chinotyisa pakutora mwana neni pakupera kwevhiki kwezuva rose kuguta, baba vakakwanisa kunyatsoita kuti mwana asati ayamwisa.
Gadzira yako purogiramu
Paunenge usati wazadza maziso ako pane chirongwa chezuva kana kunyange vhiki, zviri nyore kutevera zvese pfungwa. Kuti mumhuri, mafaro haana kumuka mukuti mumwe munhu anobva kune vamwe vavakaroverana misi uye iye zvino kune mwana hapana wekuenda kubindu, akanakisa pamberi pevhiki itsva yekushanda , kunyanya kana iwe uchiita zvese uye iwe urongwa hwako haubvumire iwe kuti usiye nzvimbo dzinoshanda panzvimbo yemamiriro ezvinhu asingafanooni. Mangwanani ega ega iwe unogona kureva memo on, ngatiti, iyo firiji uye ronga zuva rako pasina kugashira atsamwa kubva kuhafu yechipiri.