Kurota uku kwanditumira nhengo imwe yeboka, iyo kwemwedzi misere yakashanda zvakasimba. Vatori vechikamu muboka iri vakagadzirirwa kunzwisisa kuti vanovadzivisa kubudirira munzvimbo dzakasiyana siyana dzehupenyu, pamwe natenzi nyowani, tsika dzakanaka. Pakupedzisira, boka rakashanda munzira yekubudirira zvakanyanya kune mumwe nemumwe anotora chikamu mumatanho ehupenyu.
Imwe nguva yapfuura, boka racho rakapedza kuvapo kwayo. Nguva pfupi yapfuura yakauya tsamba iyi:
"Ndakashandisa kudzidziswa kwekutamba padanda muboka nevatsva. Studio iye oga ari mune imwe mitambo yakaoma, uko vatambi mumwe chete, uko kune imwe mhando yemitambo, vane acrobatics Mukomana wangu akauya kuzoshanda kwangu kekutanga muhupenyu hwangu. Akatanga kuita, bhendi yacho zvese nyowani, isu tinopinda mumatanda aya vanopfuura horo, uye totanga kukanganisa, kuti haukwanise kuitisa kudzidziswa, etc., tinopfuurira mberi, vanoenda, vanoenda kunotenderedza maminitsi gumi nemashanu , uye vanodzoka, vatanga kudzidzisa padivi pedu. Ini ndinobvunza kana vachitigonesa kwenguva yakareba, vanoti vanoita zvavanoda. Ipapo chinhu chakakosha kwazvo chinouya kwandiri chinodaidza ini veronica. Kunyangwe zita rangu rakasiyana, uye ndinomudaidza. Mujaho anoti haadi kutamba kwedu, uye kuti pakanga pasina chikonzero. Uye ivo vanozoenda. "
Mukududzirwa kwechiroto, kutaura kwezviroto kuchatibatsira kuti veronica ndiyo yake yakatangira, iyo ichinyatso kutungamira kudzidziswa uku. Uye zvakanyanya kukosha - izita remaroto edu.
Nekudaro, kurota kunotaurira kuti kurota kwedu kuri munhare isina kukwana, kwaanoyedza kushandisa kudzidziswa mune mafashoni anotamba. Kekutanga, murume wacho anouya kuchikamu chekudzidziswa, asi mumwe munhu ane simba kune nzvimbo iyo inzvimbo, inoityaira seVeronica, "akashamisika" mazita.
Mamiriro ezvinhu e "iyo" nguva uye kukanganisa muzita, sezvazvinoratidzika, hazvitaure zvakananga kuti muchiroto, kunetsekana kwechimwe chinhu chinobva kuna amai vake. Mufananidzo wemutambi ari kuedza kuityaira, ndiko kuramba kwake kwaanotungamira kurwa naamai. Zvinofanira kunzwisiswa kuti kurwa kunoitika kwete mupfungwa chaiyo. Asi, hope dzedu dziri kurwa neimwe kodzero, izvo zvinodavirwa naamai vavo vakadana, uye zvino zvaimutadzisa.
Midziyo yaSoviet nguva dzinoti nyaya iyi haisi chimwe chinhu chakakosha, asi mune izvo zvakaunganidzwa mumakore apfuura.
Iyo inonhuhwirira yekurara ndeye chokwadi chekuti Heroine yedu inozowanikwa nemukomana wake, asi chinzvimbo chevanominda mazviri chakasimba. Zvakaoma kuti ataure neshamwari yake, zvisinei nechokwadi chaakadzidza kubva kuna amai.
Pano inguva yekudzokera shure uye kutaura kuti mhuri yepfungwa inopokana kuti pane kuenderera kwakakosha pakati paamai nemwanasikana. Vanasikana, vanoda imwe kana kwete, kazhinji vanogara nhaka yehukama hwehukama, tsika, kufunga. Semutemo, ivo havazive izvi uye vanotungamirirwa nemazano ereya nezvavo, mhuri yavo, nekuwana mumwe wako muhupenyu, vanasikana vachadzokorora mirairo yevabereki vaine chokwadi, vachiita zvikanganiso . Nekuti chimwe chinhu chakanaka chaive kuna amai panguva imwe chete, vanogona kuve nekuparadzwa kwakakwana kwemwanasikana wake panguva yake. Zvinoitika kuti amai, nekuda kwemamiriro enguva yakareba, vobvisa nhumbu zhinji, uye vakunda vavo havanyatsopindira muhukama uye havadi kutanga vana, vashoma kutya kuti vachazowana Vana vavo kune mamwe mafaro, asi ivo pachavo - vachitambura neizvi. Uye mienzaniso yakadaro mazana. Ini ndakanzwa kuti vakadzi vakaramba rudo rwavo uye vakaroora, vanobvumirana pakukanganiswa uye kuverenga, uye mushure memakumi emakore, vakarambidza vanasikana vavo kuti vadye murudo uye vagadza mhuri pakurongeka kwemoyo yavo.
Mhuri Psychology inoratidza hukama hwevana-vemubereki inyaya yekuti amai vacho vanonzverwa nemwanasikana wavo vachive vakura, vanomupa chikomborero chake zvisinei nekuti kudavirwa kwakawanda. Mune mamwe mazwi, amai vacho vanobatsira mwanasikana wavo kuti vawane chinzvimbo chakura, chakazvimirira nzvimbo uye zvawo zvichemo.
Dzokera kuHeroine yedu. Zvinoratidzika kunge zvaibuda zvakakwana kuti uzvivimbe pamusoro pake kupfuura zvinotendwa naamai vake. Kurara kunotaura kuti mumweya wake kwakanakisa kuve kwakawandisa uye kuzvishingisa.
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Maria Zemskova, Psychologist, Mhuri Inarapist uye Zvinotungamira Zvekudzidzisa Kwemunhu Kudzidzisa Center Mika Khazina