Izvo hazvigoneke kuendesa kuvimba uye hukama hwakasimba pasina kuswededza uye kwepanyama. Pasina izvi, chero, kunyange hukama hwakareba, tendeuka kubva kune vadi kuti vangobatana, izvo zvisingaitwe kana uchida kuenderana nemubatanidzwa nemudiwa wako.
Isu takasarudza kufunga kuti ndedzipi nhanho dzakakodzera kuita kuti vaviri vako vasabhadhara kubatana kusingaonekwe.
Usamboenzanisa mukwikwidzi nevamwe varume
Hapana mumwe wemumiriri wesimba rakasimba harizofananidzwa nevamwe varume, kunyanya kana fananidzo isiri yake. Rangarira kuti chero fananidzo nemumwe murume wausina kumbobvira awirana naye muhukama chaihwo haazokwanisi kubatsirwa, asi zvinorova zvakanyanya kuzvivimba kwemurume wako. Mune ino kesi, hazvidikanwe kutaura nezvehukama hwakanaka uye hwekuvimba.
Regedza kuda kubva kune mumwe wako wekuchinja
Rangarira kuti vanhu vakanaka havaitike, murume wako munhu mukuru, nenheyo dzake uye nechiratidzo chiripo chepasirese, kupesvedzera nyika yake ichave yakaoma kwazvo. Funga kuti chii chaizvo chausingaguti naye kwauri. Unosuwa nyoro here? Nei usingagovere zvinyoronyoro nazvo zvinoitika pamusoro peizvi, pane zvekuda kutevera pfungwa yako yehukama hwakakwana. Ratidza kushanduka, murume uyu achazotenda zvikuru.
Usatya kuvhura murume
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Rudo rumwe
Ehe, tiri kutaura nezve mubhedha. Hupenyu hwepedyo chimwe chezvinhu zvakakosha zvekuvaka hukama hunodziya uye hwepedyo. Hazvigoneke kuziva munhu, achipedza husiku mashoma naye, mumwe munhu anoshawa hupenyu kuti afarire hafu yako yechipiri. Usatya kuyedza mumubhedha uye udzidze zvakawanda kuvimba nenguva inonyanya kukosha nguva.
Tsvaga chinhu chakajairika
Hapana chinobatanidza murume nemukadzi sebasa rakajairika. Kana iwe uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uri muukama uye unzwe kuti Iskra mashizha, tsvaga mukana wekupona ruzivo new nemudiwa wako, asi gara uchifunga kwete chete zvido zvako, asiwo zvido zvemumwe wako.
Kuve wakavhurika
Murume wako haangori mudiwa uye munhu anokudzivirira, asi akagadzirirawo kukuteerera uye kuchengetedza kana iwe uchiida. Kutaura nezve hupenyu hwemararamiro ausingaone kubuda, kwete kuratidzwa kwekushaya simba, asi chishuwo chevanhu chaicho chekugamuchira rutsigiro uye kunzwisisa kubva pamunhu wepedyo. Naizvozvo, isu tinogoverana neushingi nezviitiko zvechirume, nyaya dzekutarisira, saka uri kuvaka hukama hwepamoyo hwaunoda.