Nhasi zvakaoma kufungidzira hupenyu hwakazara-hwakazara pasina kutaurirana. Unyanzvi hwekutaurirana hunokosheswa nebasa, unokutendera kuti ugadzire hupenyu hwomunhu uye kuita shamwari. Nekudaro, kazhinji kazhinji chishuwo chekuwana chinzvimbo chepamusoro kana kudzidza kutaurirana zvinoita kuti tishande kune zvepfungwa uye tese marudzi emarudzi. Asi maitiro ekudzidza kutaurirana pasina kuzvinetsa iwe pachako? Tichataura.
Usadzivisa kutaurirana
Kazhinji, munhu anozviperekedza pamusoro pake, kana iwe uchifanira kupinda mune hurukuro nemunhu, anoedza kudzivirira mamiriro ezvinhu maanozofanira kuzvinyudza iye zvakare. Chinja maitiro. Kana iwe, ona shamwari yaunosangana netsaona mumugwagwa, usayedze kutenderera kune imwe nzira, uti hello, kana iwe ukaita, ita hurukuro. Kutanga nematanho madiki, munguva pfupi iwe uchamira kushungurudzika kubva kune chero kutaurirana.
Usazvirega iwe pachako uine zvakaipa
Chikamu chikuru chematambudziko kana kutaurirana kunogadzirwa nekuda kwemood yedu. Ngatitii isu tinoziva kuti munhu wacho anoteedzera kukurukurirana, asi iwe unofanirwa kukurukura naye mubvunzo unokosha. Iwe unozvironga pachako pachine nguva yekukurukurirana kwekutaurirana, iyo, iri musarudzo, panzvimbo, pachinzvimbo, edza kudzora maoko ako. Kuziva izvo misoro yekutaura neanopikisa, tanga hurukuro yekutanga kukurukura nguva dzakakosha chete uye dzinoshandura hurukuro kune imwe nzira inonakidza, iyo yaizove yakanaka kune vese, isiri kupa iyo inopindirana kuti uende kune misoro yakaipa.
Usatya kuve wekutanga wekutanga
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Tanga kuzvitaura iwe pachako
Kurovedza kwakanakisa kuvandudza kuzvivimba - kutaura nemurume kutanga. Kutanga, zvichave zvakaoma kwazvo nekuda kwekutya kurambwa, asi ndipo paunonyanya kuwana mhinduro yakanaka kubva kune vatori vechikamu vekukurukurirana newe, yakakwirira kuzvivimba kwako kuchave. Nekudaro, zvakakoshesa kufunga nezve mamiriro ekuti wako anogona kupindirana: Kana iwe ukaona kuti munhu haana kugadzirirwa kutaura, mirira nyaya iri nyore.
Chimiro hachigare nguva dzose
Ehe, paunoshandisa kutaurirana kwakakosha, iwe unofanirwa kutevedzera imwe chinhambwe, asi mune mamwe mamiriro ezvinhu kuoma kwemibvunzo yako nemhinduro chete kumanikidza iyo inopindirana kuti ufare uye utadze kufarira kutaura newe. Hapana chikonzero chekudaro. Edza kuzorora, iwe unogona kunyange kuseka, uye unonyanya kukosha, kusarudza misoro yekutaura kuti iwe uchave wakanakidzwa nezvose, nekuti hapana chakaipa kupfuura iyo pindiri, uyo anongotaura nezvake uye nematambudziko ake.
Kukudziridza artismism
Kusanganisira mavhidhiyo ane yakakurumbira blogger kana kubvunzurudza nemunhu anozivikanwa anoda mamirioni, iwe ungangodaro wakaona mutambi anokosha wehunhu hwehunhu hwacho. Munhu anofinha ane hurukuro pane imwe tsamba, kwete gemincessulating, haangabudirire muvateereri. Edza kushandisa yako pachako bvunzo: Tsvaga vhidhiyo yacho mune network nemunhu waunofarira, munhu waunoyemura, uye uone mashoma ekubvunzana kwake, kwaanopamoyo, asi anotaura kubva kwaari. Edza kunzwisisa kuti chii chakavanzika chekubudirira kwakadaro, nekuti munhu wese anozivikanwa anoziva kuisa vanhu. Basa rako nderekuwana izvo zvinobatsira munhu kukwezva vatariri vatsva uye vanoedza kushandisa seizvi mukutaura nevamwe vanhu.