Ehe, zvinodikanwa kuti ushande pakuvakwa kwehukama hukama. Nekudaro, kunyangwe mune ino nyaya, matambudziko nematambudziko zvinokwanisika, izvo zvinosvika kune imwe pfungwa ndedzimwe nguva, kana kubatana nemudiwa wehuranda, zvakakodzera kufunga kuti uchararama sei mune iyi mode . Tichapa zviratidzo zvina kuti hukama hwakatsanangurwa.
Unotanga kurasikirwa nerusununguko
Ehezve, pasina zvinokanganisa hazvigoneke kuti ubatirire mune imwe nguva kwenguva yakareba, asi sarudzo yakaitwa inofanira kuronga iwe vaviri. Kana iwe uri mumamiriro ezvinhu anovandudza oga mukuda kawakaroora, nepo kukanganisa kwako zvaunofarira kana kupokana nheyo dzako, izvi hazvisisiri kukanganisika, asi kuzviisa pasi pako. Paunenge uchingonzwisisa kuti kubatana kunotanga kuputsa mukati, iwe unorega kufadza mubatanidzwa uyu, pamwe unongopinza uye musiyano mune iyi nyaya ichave mhinduro yakanyanya kunaka.
Kazhinji kubvunzana kwepfungwa psychologist kunounza rugare kune hukama
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Iwe unorega kuwana mufaro uchiri muhukama
Pamusoro pebasa risingaperi uye kusimudzira kwehukama, rudo rukuru runoreva kufarirana nezvido zvehafu yake yechipiri, mafaro ezvauri pedyo. Kupokana uye kugumbuka kunofamba chero hukama, asi hakufanirwe kudaro "vasingaperi" uye vanoparadza. Iyo yekugara ichipinda mukambani yemumwe wako chiratidzo chechiratidzo chepedyo.
Wakanyanya kuoma kugara pedyo
Kune shamwari nehama, iwe uri vaviri vakakwana, asi kumba unoedza kupararira mumakamuri akasiyana, nekuti wabva wega kwauri, zvakava zvisingadzoreki. Munguva yehukama hwako, mamiriro mazhinji asingafadzi anogona kuitika, izvo zvakakonzera nyonganiso uye kunyange kusada kune mumwe nemumwe. Funga kana iwe usingakwanise kuchinja mamiriro acho, zvimwe pfuurira hukama husina musoro?
Hukama hachifanirwe kunge chiri mukati
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Iwe hauna simba rekuenderera mberi nehukama uhu.
Vazhinji vakaroorana havana kupererwa, uye kana dambudziko rehukama hwehukama harigone kugadziriswa vega, enda kune avo vane hunyanzvi muhunyanzvi hunobatsira kururamisa zvikanganiso uye rubatsiro murudo kukurira dambudziko racho. Kazhinji, kubvunzana kwevanhu vepfungwa kunounza rugare kuhukama hwehukama hwemurume nemukadzi, asi zvinoitika kuti zvanga zvisingaite kubatsira hukama, kunyanya kana mumwe munhu kubva kune vaviri vachitambura. Rangarira manzwiro aunoita usati waita muukama uhu? Kana mamiriro ezvinhu akachinja zvakanyanya, iwe unoda kubatana kwakadaro here?