Vazhinji vashandirwi vanoshanda zvinoenderana neyakajairwa chirongwa kana zvasvika pakutsvaga mushandi mutsva: mibvunzo yekirasi yakaita se "iwe waunozviona mumakore mashanu muungano yedu?", "Ndiudze nezvako" uye zvichingodaro. Asi munguva pfupi yapfuura, Eichra ari kubheja pane hunhu hwega hwemushandi angangogona kuwana kambani, uye mune dzimwe nguva maitiro emunhu anotamba chinzvimbo chikuru pane nyanzvi. Isu takasarudza kuunganidza magazini evashandirwi vanoisa mugumo wakafa wevanyori vechidiki vadiki veposvo yekutenderera.
"Chii chinowanzo kutadzisa iwe kurara?"
Kuita mubvunzo wakadaro, Eichar haatarisiri kunzwa nezvezvakanaka zvikwereti, katsi inorwara kana pfungwa dzehunyanzvi. Iwe unoongororwa kugona kurarama paPurogiramu: Semutemo, vanhu vanowira pasi pemangwanani kana kusiyana nekuita kwemanheru, kana basa racho richisiyana nekuwana nzvimbo yebasa kubva mangwanani, kuzivikanwa Kuti iwe unoda kutungamira mararamiro ehusiku, ndichadzikisa mikana yako kana uchitora basa.
"Kana kambani yedu yasvika kubudirira kukuru mugore rinouya, chii chichava mupiro wako, mukufunga kwako?"
Mushandirwi ari kuyedza kufunga kuti iwe unoziva sei zviitiko zvekambani uye zvine musoro kana uchinyatsokoshesa simba rako. Pindura kuti iwe unoda kuzvipire zvachose kuti ushande, unogona kudzidza kubva kune imwe nyowani, kana iwe uchifanira kuverenga, uye zvakare uverenge nzvimbo yekambani nenhoroondo yayo - gadzirira nokungwarira.
Usape chero mubvunzo kuti uise iwe mumugumo wakafa
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"Ndeipi nguva yehupenyu hwako yaive yakanyanya kunaka?"
Rudzi rwakadaro runonzwisisa runoziva zvaunofarira, huwandu hwakazara hwekusimudzira kwenjere uye zvakasikwa. Mushure memhinduro yako, mushandirwi anokwanisa kuita yako psychological mufananidzo uye nzwisisa kuti mikana yako ndeye kujaira kuchikwata, pamwe nezvakawanda sei iwe zvauchabatsira kubhizinesi.
"Ndezvipi mhuka dzaunozvibatanidza?"
Sezvaunonzwisisa, iyo sloth naWalrus havana kunyanya kunaka sarudzo. Nyanzvi dzezvemagariro? Ivo vanogona kukanda pasi kuzasi kuti vawane zvavanoda.
"Uchazoroora rinhi?"
Mubvunzo uyu haufadze kunzwa kubva kuhama neshamwari, zvekutaura pamusoro pemunhu waunoona kekutanga. Nekudaro, kuenda kune zvisina kunaka - chinhu chakaipisisa chaunogona kuuya nazvo. Nyatsopindura zvakadzikama kuti mumakore mashanu kana gumi ekutanga iwe une basa rekutanga uye kuzvisimudzira, sezvo iwe wapedza nguva yakawanda pakudzidziswa uye nekuvandudza seunyanzvi, uye saka mhuri uye munguva pfupi yakakurumidza kutamira kumashure.