Chokwadi, bhuku riripo neShamba, maererano nehuwandu hwekupedzisira, dzinowanikwa mukadzi mumwe nemumwe. Ngazvive zvipfupi, kunyange zvinoremedza, asi zvichiri kufunga nezvemhedzisiro yacho.
Kutanga, kazhinji kazhinji, mushure mekukurumidza uye pureloquent kupurika kuchave kwakaoma kuchengetedza hukama hwakaringana hwekushanda. Kazhinji, mushure mekutyora bhuku nemusoro wechiitiko chake, zvakafanira kudzinga, kushandurwa kana kuenda kuzororo refu kuti udzokere nechiso chisina kukodzera. Zvakaoma kuchengetedza hukama hwekushanda pane yekare wave, nekuti kazhinji kazhinji kazhinji zvinotora kumusoro, kana imwe yemapato.
Kechipiri, bhuku racho neBosi rakanetsa. Naizvozvo, gadzirira makuhwa, uchizevezera iwe une kumashure kwako uye nekuwedzera kutarisisa kune hukama hwako, kunyanya kana uine zvisikwa zvese zvaari kusununguka.
Ivo pachavo, makuhwa anokuvara haashandiswe, asi ivo vanokwanisa kusimudza zita rako rebhizinesi. Mukuwedzera, kana ukaita chakavanzika kubva kune yako bhuku, hazviiti kurarama kwenguva yakareba. Hazvina kuitika kuti munhu wese anoda kuchengeta hukama hwako muchivande.
Yetatu, nguva yekubuda nguva yapera, iyo bhuku nebhuku raShishi harizombosiyana nedzimwe dzidziso nevamwe varume. Uye hazvigoneke kuti mazuva akadaro haazoitike apo, mushure mekukakavara kana kukurukurirana kwakaoma, hauzoitwe zvachose. Uye iwe unofanirwa kuzviita. Kupfuura zvese, haasi chete mudiwa, asiwo mukuru wechisimba. Mune zviitiko zvakadaro, kuedza kwehasha kunotanga iwe: Ndiani wauri kutanga - murudo uye mukadzi akasvibiswa kana mushandi akavimbika?
Nenzira, kana iwe uri mukuru uye iwe une chinyorwa nevanopfeka, saka kwauri mese mhedzisiro imwe chete. Nesiyano chete iyo mune nyaya yekuzorora inoshamisa, haufanirwe kutsvaga basa.
Asi panguva imwe chete iyoyo, hapana chinhu tsotsi mune bhuku rine sahwira. Pakangoitika, hapana nzira yemugwagwa. Tichafanira kubata nemhedzisiro yese. Kunyanya kana bhuku iri risiri pakati pevanhu vaviri vakasununguka, asi pakati pemakaroora uye vakaroora.
Chokwadi chinonakidza ndechekuti, maererano nehuwandu, vanhu vanoshanda kumaawa 8-9 pazuva vanofarira kutsvaga varoorani muchikwata chekushanda. Chekutanga, munhu wacho akaedzwa, uye wechipiri, hazvidikanwe kutora kuedza kwakaoma uye mumvuri wemumwe wako mumwe kune imwe nzvimbo, hazvidikanwa kuisa njodzi yakaoma uye kuyedza nevanhu vasina kujairika. Chikwata chekushanda chinongova nzvimbo yakanaka kwete chete zvipfupi zvipfupi, asiwo nehukama hwemwoyo murefu.
Izvo zvakakosha kuti ugadzirise nemazvo. Uye uzvipe mushumo wakajeka: Kana ndine nhepfenwe yakajeka: Kana ndine nhepfenyuro naboss, uye ndinoziva kuti haasati ari nguva refu, haagare nzvimbo yekuti mumwe munhu akakosha here?
Uyezve, ishoko neiyo sahwira yenzvimbo yakanaka uye muhoro. Kana zvirizvo, uye kupindira kwehukama nazvo zvinoreva kupera kwekuvapo kwako kwakavimbika munyika, saka ichi chiratidzo chakakomba chekuita chiito. Hakuna tsananguro dzebasa dzinofanira kumanikidzwa kuhukama nekuuraya. Zvakaitika zvakadaro zvinogona kuve zvinovava, zvinorwadza uye hune hutsinye, uye zvichave zvakaoma kudzorera muhoro wakanaka.
Rombo rakanaka kwauri!
Maria Dyachkova (Zemskova), Psychologist, Mhuri Therapist uye anotungamira kudzidzisa kukura kwega kwega kweMary Khazin Kudzidzisa Center