Vabereki vanova nechiremera kumwana kubva panguva yekuzvarwa. Ivo vanogovana ruzivo rwavo kwete pane zvavo Onciasis, asi vana vanofara kwazvo mumagariro ehupenyu hwese - kubva pachavo kune veruzhinji. Nguva dzeNew York Times dzidziso yakaratidza kuti vanakomana vashoma Vanasikana vakawedzera makati marefu - 1.8 Times kazhinji vanosarudza basa raamai uye chete 1,7 times - basa raBaba. Ndakafunga kuongorora psychology yesarudzo iyi uye kubatsira chizvarwa chidiki uye vabereki vavo vanoita sarudzo yakanaka.
Usamanikidza mwana
"Kana tikataura nezvekuti vabereki vanotaura sei nevana nezve basa uye basa rekushandura, ipapo iwe unofanirwa kuteerera vana. Rega vaende kumasekete, sarudza zvavanoda. Kana mwana akakanda makirasi, saka haazi iye chaiye. Pane imwe nguva nekufamba kwenguva, achazowana kuti chii chinonakidza uye icho chaachagadzirira kukudziridza sehunyanzvi, "mubhizimusi anotenda uye munyori webasa reAnna Satani. Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzakaomerera kune pfungwa dzakafanana, vachitenda kuti pese paudiki kudzidzisa mumwana kushingairira kuwana chiitiko chitsva uye kushayikwa kwekutya kukanganisa. Mwana wako haafanire kushivirira uye kuenda kumakirasi ayo asingade. Kuzvininipisa uye kutsungirira munguva isingabatsiri nguva - kure neunyanzvi hwakanakisa hwemutungamiri wenguva yemberi.
Nyanzvi yemwana.
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Goverana chiitiko chako
Kana iwe ukaona mwana pakati pebasa rako, usatyora zviroto zvake nemazwi pamusoro pekuti unoshanda zvakanyanya sei. Mune chero basa pane zvinogona uye zvikanganiso, zvichave nyore kuti iye agare pamba pamusha. Zviri nani kubvumirana negwara pane rwendo rwemwana kune yako kambani: Ratidzai nzvimbo yako yebasa uye gadzira nedenderedzwa rebasa chairo, tevera vatinoshanda navo kubva kumadhipatimendi akafanana. Kana kutaura kwako kwatove nemakore gumi nemashanu, kunogona kurongwa mumakore ekureva kwechinguva chidiki - tsika yekupedzisira kumuita kuti aite nezvechishuwo chekuenda pane tsoka dzako kana kuramba zvachose pfungwa. Nenzira imwecheteyo, pakukumbira kwemwana, unogona kupfuudza mubatanidzwa mukambani ye papa kana hama dziri pedyo uye shamwari dzemhuri. Iyo yakafara kuchave neyakajairwa sarudzo, zvakanyanya kufungidzira kwemabasa akasiyana siyana enjodzi uye zvichave nyore kusarudza shanduro yekupedzisira.
zvirinani utarise zvese mukuita
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Kanganwa nezve zviroto zvako
Mwana haasi chirongwa chako, asi munhu akapatsanurwa anofanirwa kuvaka hupenyu hwake. Kufungidzira kwako kwehudiki nezvebasa remunhu skater kana hope dzisina kujairika dzegweta remagariro mune iyo yepamusoro kambani, kwete zvirongwa zvemwana. Nyanzvi yebasa inosangana nesu mune maonero: "Ini ndinotenda kuti vana vanofanirwa kusarudza izvo zvavanofarira, uye pasina mhosva vabereki havafanire kumanikidza basa ravo kana maonero avo. Nomuzvarirwo, pane zviitiko apo, ngatiti, vabereki kana vambuya vaive vanachiremba uye mwana vanozviona sei mune izvi. Ehe, saka ichi ndicho chinhu chimwe. Asi nderekuti, zvinosuruvarisa, uye kuitira kuti vabereki vaiswe maroto avo asina kujairika uye zvinangwa. Ndine muenzaniso wakadaro, sezvo vabereki vemusikana vachisarirwa kuve muimbi we opera, paaisada zvachose, uye akazochinja zvinhu paakanzwisisa kuti akange apedza simba rakawanda uye aisada kuita BHAIBHERI BHUKU. Muchokwadi, zvakazoitika kuti chaive chishuwo muhuduku mai vake. "