Kufa dzimwe nguva kuchema zvinoshamisa, kusundira vanhu kune mumwe nemumwe uye kwavo kwekupedzisira. Unogona kutaura mitauro yakasiyana, rarama munyika dzakasiyana, rudo zvakasiyana, pemberera zororo rakasiyana. Uye izvi zvese hazvizove zvakakosha zvachose kana iwe wakasangana nemunhu wako, mweya wako mukadzi, waunoda kugara pamwe chete mazana emakore.
Uye kana ukasangana, ziva uye wadanana nezana remakore, kuti hukama hwevakareruka, sei hukama nehunyanzvi hwemutorwa, wamuroora uye uuye naye mufaro wako kuburikidza nemakore mazhinji ekugara pamwechete?
Kumadokero, sekuruswa kweRussia, kune varume vakasiyana zvachose. Kuti iwe uzvivake hukama hwakawirirana, iwe unongoda kuziva uye kutora tsika nezvimiro zvepfungwa dzesarudzo yako yakasarudzwa. Izvi zvichakupa kunzwisisa kwepfungwa dzake, maonero ake pamararamiro, iwo emhuri nheyo uye zvinotarisirwa kubva kumukadzi wavo. Panguva imwecheteyo, muchato unofadza wemunhu wekune dzimwe nyika ndewechokwadi, kana isu tichifunga nezvemamwe manhamba.
Julia Lansk
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Zvinhu zvehukama hwenyika
Feature Nhamba 1: Varume vekunze vanosvika kune zvakasikwa nekuvakwa kwetembere yemhuri yavo. Semutemo, vakagadzirira kuroora kumwe kunosvika makore makumi matatu nemakumi matatu nemashanu, apo maitiro ekushandurwa kwehunhu hwavo achaitwa, uye nguva iyoyo isati yasvika mukukura kwavo pachavo, ivo vanoita.
MuRussia, panguva ino, vaviri varume nevakadzi vanogona kuramba vachigadzira mhuri, kubereka vana uye kunyange kutyora hukama.
Feature Nhamba yechipiri: Kana murume wekunze achitora mukadzi anotaura mumudzimai wake, nekuti anokwana zvakakwana, nekuti anonzwisisa zvakakwana kuti iye, achienda kune imwe nyika, anosiya zvese zvino uye zvinoshandura hupenyu hwake zvakanyanya. Iye anoziva kuti hauzove nyore kuwana basa munyika yake: Simbisa magwaro ako edzidzo, dzidza mutauro wobva wawana basa.
Uye uve nechokwadi: Kana mumwe murume akagadzirira kumanikidza basa rakadaro, saka uri chaizvo, mukadzi anodikanwa uye anodiwa. Uye hunhu uhwu hurege kubvisa kutya kwekuwedzera mukati mako uye kuchakubatsira kuwana kuti uverenge kuwedzere kujairana zvinhu zvitsva, nyika, vanhu netsika.
Feature Nhamba 3: Izvo zvinodikanwa kuvaka hukama nemunhu wokumwe mukudzika, nekuti kune mamwe stereotype kune vakadzi vanotaura chiRussia, kuti vakadzi vese vanobva kunzvimbo yepositi (kana yavo huru) vanotsvaga vasina kuroora kana murume kana ari nyika yake.
Ndiwo uyu "rusvingo rusingaperi" iwe uchafanira kuvakwazve, uchiverengera pazvidhinha. Batisisa pane yako yakasarudzwa, pachena uye nerukudzo, uye zvakanyanya kukosha, kuve wakavimbika. Iko kutendeseka, kuve pachena uye kwakakura kwekunzwa kwemanzwiro kunotsvaga kwevatorwa mumukadzi wavo.
Feature Nhamba 4: Nekuti mumwe munhu kukoshesa kukuru kumararamiro evasanangurwa nemaitiro ake. Zvakakosha kwazvo zvekuti ivo vanoenderana newe, semuenzaniso, unogona kufunga nezve kutarisisa kwako kuzvisimbisa.
Mushure mezvose, munyika dzeEuropean hamufanire kuwana murume kana mukadzi aisazoteerera hutano hwavo. Vazhinji veEuropean vane mitambo yacho, mune yavo pfungwa, kazhinji chikamu, kukosha kwehupenyu hwekushanda uye hunoshanda hwakajairika.
Mubatanidzwa wako uchave wakasimba kana ukatofunga nezve uchifamba pamusoro pekuti ungaita sei, uye zviri nani - "dzichaitika" munyika iyoyo maizogadzirira kubva
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Feature nhamba 5: Iwe unofanirwa kuziva zvaunotarisira pachako hupenyu hwako. Ita izvi zvisingabvumirani, sezvo mutorwa achada kunzwa kubva kwauri nzwisiso yakajeka yekuti iwe unoona sei hupenyu hwako muwanano uye zviwanikwa zvavanoda kuisa mari muhukama hwedu. Panguva imwecheteyo, mumwe munhu wekune dzimwe nyika anowanzoreva kufarira kwako pachake, nguva yako uye manzwiro aurigadzirira kuisa mari pakutaurirana naye.
Murume wokuMadokero achada kunzwisisa pachine nguva kuti iwe uchavaka sei hukama hwakawanda sekunge wakagadzirira kufamba pane kuronga kuita, kufamba, uye zvaunofunga kuzviwana.
Mubatanidzwa wako uchave wakasimba kana ukatombofunga nezve uchifamba pamusoro pemaitiro aunogona kuita, " iwe. Semutemo, varume veEurope vanotsigira chishuvo chavo vakasarudzwa kuti vazvizive, kusanganisira nebasa.
Chii chinogona kuderedza mikana yako yewanano nemumwe munhu?
Yako "Achilles fifte" inogona kutadza kutaura zvakasununguka mumutauro wekwake uye kusaziva kwako kwekuchinja.
Ehe, pamatanho ekutanga ekufambidzana, iwe wakakwana rubatsiro rwemuturikiri chero wepamhepo. Nekudaro, kukura kwehukama kunenge kuri madikanwa nehunyanzvi hwekutaura kwekutaurwa, kana zvisina kudaro hukama hwako nemusanangurwa wacho achazouya zvishoma nezvishoma.
Zvakakosha kuti iwe utarise nyika "pasina magirazi epamhepo" uye asina kutungamirirwa neiyo nheyo ye "zvirinani kwatisiri." Haufanire kuenda kunogara kunze kwenyika, chete nekuti iwe haugone kuzviziva kumba uye kutarisira kuti uzviwane kumadokero. Mukana wemhedzisiro yakadaro ndeye mashoma. Zvakaoma chaizvo kuva "vako" munyika dzemumwe munhu, uye mune izvi nerutsigiro rwemudiwa wako, runogona kukubatsira kuti uve neruzivo, ruzivo uye chishuvo chekurarama zvachose.
Nenzira, kuzorora kunze kwenyika uye vanogara mune imwe nyika iri kure nechinhu chimwe chete. Naizvozvo, hazvina madikanwa kuita sarudzo pakutamira kunzvimbo yekugara zvachose kune imwe nyika, yakavakirwa pamanzwiro akagamuchirwa panguva yezororo. Ivo havana chekuita nezano rehupenyu hwezuva nezuva mune ino zvinhu zvakasiyana.
Chinhu chikuru mune zvekutaurirana neye akasarudzwa ndechekuisa zvese pfungwa pamusoro "Ini", nzwisisa uye tora chokwadi chitsva pamberi pewanano yako uye kutamira kune imwe nyika
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Pamusoro 3 Zviratidzo zveBatsiro yehukama hwako nemurume wokumwe:
Ratidza nguva yekudzidza mutauro unoti munhu wako. Iwe unofanirwa kukwanisa kunyatsogadzira pfungwa dzako uye unzwisise zvavaitaura pasina kukanganisa.
Kusangana neruzivo rwechirume psychology. Izvi zvichakubatsira iwe kuwana nzwisiso nemurume anomutswa mune dzimwe tsika mune imwe nzanga. Somugumisiro, iwe uchavaka zviri nyore kutaurirana neyako akasarudzwa uye chengetedza hurukuro kune zvinonakidza zvinomutsamwa.
Edza kudzidza zvakawanda nezve nravas, tsika dzevatorwa nevarume vezvevatorwa kuti vakwanise kumhuri yake, vateya mararamiro avo, vazove, kuti varege kuita semukadzi wake anodiwa uye anofara.
Ngativei zvishoma pfupiso
Kana iwe uchida kuroora mutorwa anodikanwa uye ane rudo uye siya kuti agare kunze kwenyika, zvinonyanya kukosha kuti zvaunotarisira kubva pakurarama pamwe chete nekutarisira kwemurume wako, zvirinani, zvinoenderana neaya anokosha maitiro:
- Hupenyu hunhu uye zvinotarisirwa kubva kune yavo yechipiri hafu muwanano;
- Kubatanidzwa kwako kuita nzanga nemikana yekuzviziva;
- Views pane makuru makuru ekugara pamwe chete, semuenzaniso, kuberekwa uye kurera vana.
Chinhu chikuru mune zvekutaurirana nemumwe wakasarudzwa ndewekuisa pfungwa dzese pamusoro "Ini", kunzwisisa uye kutora chokwadi chitsva pamberi pemuchato wako uye kutamira kune imwe nyika. Uyezve nyika dzakasiyana uye zvipingamupinyi zvemitauro hazvisi chipinganidzo kuhukama hwako hunofadza, nekuti izvo zviri pamusoro zvinokwanisa kubvisa zvakawanda zvezviitiko zvako uye zvinofambisa maitiro ekupinda munharaunda nyowani.