Ukama hwepabonde hwepabonde ndeimwe yenzvimbo dzinokosha dzekuchengetedza mubatanidzwa wakasimba. Asi kazhinji zvinoitika kuti mumwe wevakaroorana anoda kutarisirwa zvakanyanya kubva hafu yake hafu, nepo mukwanyina wechipiri ari pedyo zvakakwana kune kakawanda vhiki. Chii chekuita kana iwe usingafunge nezve kuputsa hukama? Tichataura.
Mudiwa haana kupomerwa
Chinhu chekutanga chakakodzera nzwisiso mumamiriro ezvinhu aya ndechekuti mumwe wako aramba kusvika pauri paunenge uchizvida, hazvireve kuti akadanana naye kana kuti haadi. Semutemo, dambudziko riripo mune physiology kana matambudziko epfungwa emunhu mumwe munhu. Funga nezve chokwadi chekuti mumwe wacho anofanira kunge akaoma, nekuti anonzwisisa kuti iwe urege kufudza zvakanyanya, uye haagoni kuipe. Chenjera kumunhu ari padyo newe.
Ratidza hanya zvakanyanya
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Ratidza hanya zvakanyanya
Semutemo, murume anoratidza zviitiko zvikuru zvepabonde mune vaviri vaviri. Kana mukadzi wako asingakwanise kutsigira mazano ako ebonde kazhinji sezvaunoda, usatsamwa, asi pachinzvimbo, isu tichatarisira kunzwisiswa uye kuratidza kutarisirwa zvishoma kupfuura zvenguva yakazara. Kumukadzi, hapana chishuwo chakawanda sekuratidzwa kwekutarisira nekutarisana nemudiwa, zvinoreva kuti kutora kwako matambudziko mumatambudziko acho kuchabatsira mukadzi kuti aite zvipingamupinyi zvese zvinomutadzisa kusangana newe.
Chinja kune dzimwe nzvimbo dzehupenyu hwako
Dzvinyiriro isingaperi kubva kune mumwe murume anoshanda pabonde anogona kudzokorora zvachose chido zvepabonde. Unoida here? Isu tine chokwadi chekuti kwete. Kazhinji munhu asingashande naye anoda nguva yekubata mhepo yaunoda. Mupe iye mukana wakadai, uye usazvitambudza netarisiro, ita zvakakosha kwauri: Sangana neshamwari, enda mumitambo, tsvaga basa rinonakidza.
Hapana kutsoropodzwa
Kana iwe uchida bonde zvakanyangarika kubva muhukama hwako, kushora mumwe wako nekuda kwechikonzero chero chipi zvacho. Tsanangura kune mumwe wako kuti zvakakuomera iwe kuti urambe uchidzivirira kushaikwa kwebonde, saka iwe unowedzera kutsamwa. Kuzivikanwa nokutendeseka kuchakubatsira iwe vaviri kuwana kukanganisika pasina mhosva.