Kazhinji kune varoorani pakubvunza uye makirasi, ayo anotarisa kunze anotaridzika zvakanaka. Zvisinei, nemifananidzo yaakafunga nayo, uye nemabatiro avakaita, isu tinogona kutaura kuti ndeapi maviri ari munzira inokwanisika kupatsanurwa.
Kunetsana kunowisira muzvikonzero zvidiki, asi kukura kuva makarodzana makuru uye kunyorwazve. Hapana mumwe wevakaroorana anotsvaga kutsvaira kunze kwemakona kana kutsvaga nzira yekugadzirisa. "Tinouya pasi kwete. Mumwe nemumwe murume nomumwe murume nomumwe nemumwe nenguva iyo, iyo inovona rudo rwekugara pamwe chete, maitiro avo, tsika. Kana vaviri vacho vachida kuchengetedza kuvimbika kwavo, nguva yekuti nguva yei idzi tsika inochengetwa uye, semutemo, kunyange mune dutu. Kana vaviri vacho vasingazive kana nehana vachishuva kupatsanurwa, saka isu "tave kutanga kubayira kana kuregeredza. Anonyangarika bonde. Hupenyu hwepabonde, kana kuti kusavapo kwake ndechimwe chezviratidzo zvekurudyi kuti mune zvinhu zviviri zvakaipa. Bonde nderimwe remhando inodhura kwazvo yehukama, kutaura kwemanzwiro kune mumwe, nyoro, hanya. Kana vaviri vacho vari padanho rekuparadzaniswa, ririkuona kutsamwa, kukanganisa, kupererwa, kuda kuvhara kana kudzivirira. Muchimiro zvakadaro zvakaoma kuita zvepabonde kana kunyange kungopfugama kune mumwe nemumwe. Inoshanda, dialogues. Semutemo, vakaroorana vari kuwedzera kutamira kure kubva kune mumwe nemumwe, saka vari kure kure vanokwanisa kungochengeta hurukuro pfupi dzebhizinesi pane imwe nyaya yemagariro: Vana, zvimedu zvebasa, izvo zvinodiwa pakutenga mumba. Mune zviitiko zvega, zviitiko, hapana kana mumwe wevakaroorana muchibvumirano chakanyarara. Chibvumirano chekubvunzana uye kutuka kunodonha. Kana pakutanga mune vaviri vaviri, vaivaroorana vachitsvaga uye vakasimbisa zvakanakira uye kubudirira kweimwe, ikozvino havana kushomeka kutyisidzira mumwe nemumwe nekuda kwezvakaipa uye dambudziko redambudziko. Semuenzaniso, achipomerwa mumwe nemumwe mukusaziva (kunyangwe mumwe wako akagoverwa pfungwa yekufunga uye zvine mwero). Kana kuongorora nezve basa kubasa (kunyange pakutanga akatsigirwa mumwe nemumwe mukuita).
Zvese zvakanyorwa zvinotaurwa nezvazvo pamusoro pekugona kupatsanurwa, kana - uye kazhinji kazhinji nezve dambudziko rauri kusangana nevaroorani. Kana iwe ukadzidza zviratidzo izvi zvese muwanano yako, iyi haisi njodzi. Ino ndiyo nguva yekudzokorora hupenyu hwako nzira uye hukama neyepart.
Maria Dyachkova, Psychologist, mhuri yekurapa uye inotungamira kudzidziswa kwekuwedzera kwekudzidzira kudzidzisa Center Mika Kika Khazin