Vamwe vanhu chete vanoda kuziva, uye vamwe vane humwari hwekugara hwokugara riripo panguva yekuchiva. Zvinoenderana nei? Huye, kwete kubva muzvinyorwa zveBizarre sekunyora zviroto zvavo pabepa, vachipisa pasi pehondo yerimes uye kumedza madota mune girazi reChampagne.
Kupfuura zvese, kazhinji pane zvimedu zvakadai zvinonyora zvishuwo zvakanyanya zvakadzama, sekusikwa kwemhuri, kuberekwa kwevana, kubudirira mune basa racho. Hazvitombobvi kuti kuve kwakanyorova kweAsh kunobatsira. Asi vanhu vanosuwa, kubva gore kusvika gore edza ichi "chishamiso" nzira. Kwete chete.
Muchidimbu ichi chetsika chekuda, chinorevei nhema nhema. Iyo yakavakirwa pane imwe yeiyo yakakosha psychological chidziviriro inonzi "mashiripiti achifunga". Kufunga kwakadaro ndiko kugona kwedu kufungidzira imwe yechokwadi uye kurota kweanonunura. Isu tinodzidza nzira yekupukunyuka kubva pachokwadi, kana munyika yakatenderedza nyika isina kuchengetedzeka, inotyisa, kusurukirwa uye hapana munhu wekutsvaga rutsigiro.
Muenzaniso wakanaka wekuona kwekufunga kwakadaro ndewekuti "mutsvuku saizi". Muhupenyu hwake hwezuva nezuva pakanga paine zvikonzero zvishoma zvekuti mufaro, wakawanda kuzviparadzanisa uye kusurukirwa, kuti ubate izvo zvaakabvumidza fungidziro pamusoro pemunhu mumwe chete anofamba pasi pemahara. Uye pamwe nazvo zvidiki zvidiki: Kuti ndirambe ndichirarama pamwe nekugara, uye kumirira. Mamwe maitiro arikushandawo muzvishuvo zvedu: Nekufamba kwenguva pfupi kana gore rinozivikanwa / mugumo / mutemo wekururamisira wakakwirira uchaparadzira kusimba kwake uye nekuipa. Kubva pamunhu pachako, hapana chinodiwa, mukuwedzera, kukumbira zvakanaka uye submore. Mune mamwe mazwi, kwete kuita chero chinhu chingaunza kuitwa kwechishuvo ichi.
Assol ndiwo muenzaniso unoonekwa wemuroti uyo akangomirira kuzadzikiswa kwechido chake. Chimiro kubva mufirimu "mutsvuku saizi".
Iwe unogona kubvunza nezve hutano hwevako nevadiwa, nepo chinonwa patafura yemhemberero pamusoro pechiyero, chinokuvadza, asi tenda zvakasimba kuti chishuwo chichazadzikiswa.
Unogona kuita chishuwo cheku "kurega kuputa", asi husiku hwese kusundira bundu kusvika kumagumo. Kana kurota muchinda akanaka, achisiya mhemberero neshamwari mune yakakura kambani indins yevabereki. Zvikasadaro, kugumbura! Uye gara patafura mumhuri ine tangerines uye olivier, ichinyepedzera kuti "Chiedza chebhuruu" chinonakidza. Mune mamwe mazwi, izvo zvishuwo zvisina mwero pasina chero matanho aya inzira yekuzvidzivirira pachako pachako pachako. Chese chedu chishuwo chedu, chisingaurayi, zvinoreva kuti hatishandise nzira dzekuti zviitike. Uye kuitira kuti uuye nechinangwa, kubva kunzira idzi zvinodikanwa kuti urambe kana kuvadzokorora. Uye izvi hazvisisiri chishuwo, izvi zvimwe zviito.
Uye nepo ruzhinji rwevamwe vakatenderedza vachinyatsozvimirira kuzadzikiswa kwezvishuvo, vamwe vachiri kutora matanho ekuvadzidzisa.
Uyezve, mirira uye ita zvinhu zvemazera akasiyana epfungwa. Iwe unogona kuve mukuru wehukuru / tete, asi tenda chishamiso. Vangani vana vanotenda musimba uye simba revabereki vavo, pamwe neavo neimwe nzira vanonzwisisa chaizvo uye kuita zvese zvavanoda kuti vave vana. Chikamu chevana ava chinogara mune mumwe nemumwe wedu. Kana isu tichikura njere uye vanoteerera vabereki, saka kudiwa kwedu kwekutarisira kunogutsa. Tinowanzovimba nenyika nevamwe. Dambudziko nderekuti kuve munhu mukuru munhu mukuru, unogona kuwira muhudiki, wakamirira mamwe masimba ekunze kuti uzadzise chishuwo chako, zvakakodzera chete kuda. Kunyangwe kune vakuru chete izvi hazvina kukwana. Kune zvakare vavariro, zvibodzwa, zviito, zviito, izvo zvinodiwa zvekusiya maitiro anoparadza uye anoparadza kuti asangane nebasa ravo, edza, kukanganisa, kuyedza, kuedza. Kana iwe uchirarama uine hupenyu hwakajairwa, pasina kuishandisa mariri, asi tariro yezvakanakisa, saka hapana chinozoshanduka zvinoshamisa uye gore rinouya, kune chero "mashiripiti" waunoshandisa.
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Maria Dyachkova, Psychologist, mhuri yekurapa uye inotungamira kudzidziswa kwekuwedzera kwekudzidzira kudzidzisa Center Mika Kika Khazin