Vanhu vari kuyedza kugashira chimwe chinhu kubva kwatiri kungwara zvinoitika kwese kwese, zvisinei, havazi mumwe nemumwe wedu vanogona kuverenga munyengeri pakutarisa. Saka kuti usapinda sei muchirungu chevanonamata murevi wenhema? Tichataura.
Larz haina kutaridzika zvakananga mumaziso
Kazhinji kazhinji, kutarisa kwevasina kutendeka kunotanga kumhanya kuti urege kutarisa mumaziso ake. Zvakangodaro, Manipulator mazhinji akaunganidza imwe nzira - panguva yekukurukurirana, vanoratidzika semizvokuita mumaziso, vachiedza kupa mazwi avo ekutenda. Kana iwe ukaona kuti munhu anoshingirira zvakanyanya kuyedza kubata maonero ako kana, pane zvinopesana, anodzivirira kubata akananga, zvakakodzera kufungidzira uye kumuita kuti afungirwe.
Murevi wenhema anoda kutaura kwenguva refu
Semutemo, vanhu vanoziva nzira yekutaura zvakanaka, vanokonzera kuyemurwa pakati peveruzhinji, pane uye nekunakidzwa nevanyengeri vazhinji. Iye munhu anoda chimwe chinhu kubva kwauri kuti uwane nzira isina kuvimbika ichave iri mumavara ekupenda zvakanakira zano rako, verents dzakasiyana uye vatengesi vanonyanya kushandiswa neiyi nzira. Iyo poindi ndeyekuti iwe unorasikirwa netambo yehurukuro, saka zviri nyore kuti iwe uuye kumanzwiro uye kusundira kutenga kana kubvuma nemaonero emanipulator.
Nhema dzivisa zvakananga kutaridzika kwekuona
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Tevedza mafambiro ake
Pose uye mitezo zvakare kutaura nezvemunhu. Ngazvive nekugona kwakanakisa mauto, asi kuitwoma pane chigaro, kuramba uchirangwa kwezvinhu zvipfeko kunoratidza kuti munhu haana kunyanyovhurwa pamberi pako. Kupora nekungwarira kumashoko ake.
Larz haarase izvo
Kana yako propiclocutor inotanga kutsanangurwa zvakatsanangurwa nezviitiko, zvakakodzera kufunga, uye kuti zvese zviri mumashoko ake zvakafanira kutariswa kwako here? Vanopfuura nemoyo wose kuti kurema kwemwoyo wose kunowedzera nyaya yavo, kunyangwe mune chokwadi iyo nyaya yacho iri chaizvo, iyo interclocutor inotyisa huwandu hukuru hwe "kutsauka".