Miganhu yemunhu anogona kunge akasiyana. Akavhurika kwazvo - kana munhu mavara "kuti azvishandire mumweya" emunhu wese, haakwanise kuti "Kwete", anotya kufarirwa, itsvuku. Izvi zvinoumbwa kubva paudiki, nekuda kwevabereki vanozvibata kwazvo, vanokanganwa nezvechishuvo chavo uye zvavanoda, funga zvakawanda nezvevamwe; MuPsychology iripo kunyange izwi rakakosha - "Tarisa pane vamwe."
Yakanyanya kuomarara - kana munhu akatya kurega mumwe munhu. Semutemo, uyu ndiwo mhedzisiro yekukuvara kwemwana, nekuda kwekuti munhu akafunga "kuvimba nengozi", "nani, hazviratidzike kwazvo."
Yakanyanya kuwanda - kana munhu ari kumativi ese anofunga zvinhu uye ari kuedza kutora nzvimbo nemunhu wake. Mukurarama kwepfungwa, izvi zvinonzi "kusava nekuzviongorora uye kuronga kukuru," anowanzowanikwa mune ivavo vanhu vasina kudzidzisa pfungwa yekudyara muhudiki - "Ichi ndechenyu, uye izvi ndezvangu" - uye hurongwa hwehutano mune chero chinhu.
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Izvo zvinodikanwa kuchengetedza miganhu yako pachako, uye hunyanzvi uhwu hwakaiswa muVabereki vehudiki. Ehe, panguva yehupenyu hwemuganhu ungachinja. Mukuyaruka, tinowanzo kupa nzvimbo yedu yakaoma. Kuva muukama, kunyanya pakutanga kwavo chaipo, dzimwe nguva kunyungudutswa mumudyikani, izvo zvinogona kukanganisa hupenyu hwamangwana apo nguva yekutenderwa ichipfuura, uye mimwe mitemo yekutaurirana uye kudyidzana yakatoenda munzira yenhema. Uye zvakadaro, hazvina kumbononoka kuyeuka miganhu yemunhu.
Iko kugona kuvadzivirira neushamwari ndicho chiratidzo chikuru chekukura nehungwaru. Iwe unofanirwa kuita izvi nerubatsiro rwemitsara hushamwari. Dzimwe nguva uye zvakaomarara, asi, zvakanyanya kukosha, zvisingaitike.
Kana isu tine kunzwa kuti chero munhu anoshandisa miganhu yedu, haufanire kufunga kuti nei munhu achizviita. Zvichida chikonzero chacho chinongova mukushaikwa kwedzidzo: Munhu anokutsaurira, asi haayedze "pasi" iwe.
Mune ino kesi, ndiudze kuti: "Ane kodzero yekuongorora miganhu yangu, uye ndine kodzero yekumurambidza, ndichifunga nezvangu nezvido zvangu."
Panyaya yemarikisi akavharika, uye zvakare fungawo zvakashata, chii chiri kubatsirwa kwemiganhu yakadaro kwauri? Wakavhara rini "suwo" kekutanga "munharaunda? Uye zvakanyanya kukosha: funga nezvazvo, mune zviitiko zvipi izvi zvinobatsira, uye mukati zvinokutadzisa. Iyi ndiyo kiyi yekuona iyo zvakanaka uye yemuitiro mumwe maitiro avo akasiyana. Uye hazvizombofi zvakare kuzvidzokorora pachako izvo zvakarasikirwa muhudiki.