Imwe shumba tolstoy akaona kuti "mhuri dzese dzinofara dzakafanana nedzimwe, mhuri yese isingafadzi haifadziri munzira yavo." Uye dzimwe nguva zvinoitika kuti mumhuri dzakabudirira, mhuri dzine "mafuro avo mumachira", izvo zvichakurumidza kuva pachena. Ndezvipi zvakavanzika zvakanyanyisa zvinoedza kuvanda kubva kune veruzhinji? Uye zvekuita kana chakavanzika chave pachena?
Kuwedzera kana pedophilia. Akavimbika kudzidza nezveizvo nzvimbo yakadaro iri mumhuri yako, haina kunaka kwazvo. Kazhinji nezve izvo zviri kuitika pasi pe denga rimwechete navo, vakadzi vachaziva nguva yakareba. Uye bvunza mubvunzo, sezvo zvaigoneka kuti usazive zvakaitika kumwana wake chaiye. Asi hazviripo nguva dzose: Mumwe munhu haazive chaizvo nezve mamiriro chaiwo ezvinhu mumba make, uye mumwe munhu, sehwamanda, anoviga musoro wake mujecha. VAKURU VANHU VANOTI VANOTI, vachibvumira munhu pedopu aigara naye pasi pedenga remba, kuita kuti vana vake vasingazivikanwe. Chinhu chimwe chete chakajeka: Mwana nekuda kwezvese izvi zvinogashira kukuvara kukuru kwepfungwa, kubva kwaanogona kusabvisa pasina rubatsiro rwepfungwa. Uye hazvigoneke kuti mumwe munhu, kunze kweiyo psychologist, ichataura nezvezvaakaita zvechisimba.
Handiti. Munyika medu, marita kubva muhutu haagamuchirwe. Naizvozvo, kana mukadzi achinge aiswa mhirizhonga nguva dzose kubva kumurume wake kana kuti anoenderana, ayo aratidzwa kwete chete nehasha, asiwo achirova, anowanzo nyarara nezvazvo. Kazhinji, kunyangwe vakadzi ava havaudze vana vavo uye vasikana vepedyo nezvekunyadziswa kwavanodemba kwavo zuva nezuva. Ivo vakarasika uye vasingadziviriri pamberi pehasha. Uye ivo, sematehwe, muhukama hwekuvimbika, uye nekukwikwidza masangano emutemo asingavape. Vabatsire kubuda mumamiriro ezvinhu aya kunogona kungobatana basa regweta uye psychologist.
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Accounting mune chiremba wesychiatrist. Nezvehukama vaipfuudza kurapwa kwakakomba kwesychiatchist uye vane kuongororwa kukuru, kunogona kusatombotauri mukati memhuri. Vanhu vanodzidza nezve zvinhu zvakadaro nemukana, kunyangwe pasina chinhu chinonyadzisa mune izvi. Uropi humwechete nhengo yemuviri wemunhu, pamwe nezvimwe zvakadaro, saka inogona kukundikana. Munhu anogona kuda rubatsiro rwakakodzera rwepfungwa, nekuti hapana mazano evasikana uye zvinyorwa kubva kuInternet zvichadzoserwa kunzvimbo iyi.
Chivimbo. Kuti udzidze kuti mumwe munhu kubva kuhama dzako akaunzwa mhosva yematsotsi, zvakare nemukana. Pane imwe nguva - uye kamwe kamwe zvinozoitika kuti vazukuru vako vakatongwa. Nezveumwe waunoziva. Akaenda kujeri panguva yehondo: Iye aive achiri kuyaruka uye akashanda pane chirimwa chidziviriro. Kuranga uku kwakasimba, nguva yemauto, uye akange akarara nguva dzose, nekuti achiri mwana! Kamwe chete zvaitya kunonoka uye kutuma zvinoenderana nemitemo yehondo yekushandira izwi. Iye akanga akagara mukamuri neimba yejeri, vakamuratidza kuti, iye nenzira achiti, "Pakaponesa zuva rimwe." Neimwe nzira, mukupera kwa60s, akazodzokera kumba kubva kubasa, uye revitist vakamurwazve mumusuwo. Ndakatyisidzira banga, ndaida kubira uye, pamwe, kuuraya. "Ndamuona actlain uye haana kuita chero chinhu, kusarudza kuti aive" ake. " Ambuya yechipiri vakazvisiyanisa neyekupindirana nehondo, vaibatanidzwa mune vamwe kufungidzira uye vakagashirwa kwenguva ino. Zvino taizofonera idzi hunyengeri nebhizimusi diki - iwe uchafunga nezvekutengesa kwemucheka. Asi makore 2-3 chete mushure mehondo yakapfuura, pakanga pasina chero chinhu munyika, uye pano "bhizinesi." Imwe nguva. Izwi raro rakanga rakavanzika, rakafukidzwa nerima, kunyange mwanasikana wake, iye akabva anonoka neshoko. Asi hanzvadzi dzake chete ndiro dzaizivikanwa nezvenyaya iyi, iyo yakachengeta kusvika yekupedzisira uye isina kutaura chero munhu makore mazhinji, kunyangwe mushure mekufa kwambuya vake. Pamwe, ichi hachisi chakavanzika chemhuri, asi ivo vakamuchengeta vakanyatso nyatsombonzwa mupfungwa nemoyo yavo.
Kugamuchirwa. Iye zvino vabereki vazhinji vari kumirira kugamuchirwa kwemwana hakuvanze chokwadi chekuti haasi wekuzvarwa. Ivo vakakwana. Nekudaro, mutemo wedu uchiri kuchengetedza chakavanzika chekurerwa, saka hapana mumwe munhu, kunze kwevabereki, havagone kuzivisa mwana zvinhu zvakadai. Mune izvi, pane zvimwe zvinoreva: Haasi vana vese vanogona kuona zvakadzikama ruzivo rwakaita kuti amai vavo vanyaradzwe kodzero dzevabereki kana kuti vakangoramba mwana wavo nokuzvidira muchipatara. Kunyangwe kuve munhu mukuru, munhu dzimwe nguva haagoni kudzikama: kutsvaga vabereki vake uye, pane zviitiko, anowana. Chete chete kwete nguva dzose mukadzi akasiya mwana wake pakuzvarwa anoda kutaura naye mukukura kwake. Uye ichi ndechimwezve kushungurudzika kuti iwe unofanirwa kuona vanhu vakadaro. Zvichida zvingave zviri nani kusaziva nezve kugamuchirwa.