Kwete kazhinji kazhinji, asi zvakadaro chikanganiso chinogumbura chevabereki vechidiki - kugovera mabasa mukurerwa kwemwana kana mumwe, mama, baba, baba, vanongova vanongova pamusoro pezvisina kunaka uye vanoisa Mitemo yehupenyu mumba. Kazhinji mamiriro ezvinhu anotendeuka akatopfuura zvakanyanya kana vabereki vaine matambudziko epfungwa: Mumwe anoratidza honyendo, uye yechipiri inodzivirira mwana kubva kwaari, achivagira kwaari. Inotsanangura chikonzero nei uchifanira kusiya maitiro akadaro maitiro - pane zvikonzero zvakananga nazvo.
Dombo rinogumbura muhukama hwemhuri
Pamwe wakamboona majee mumapoka evabereki, uko mwana anokumbira mwana mvumo yekuenda kuti vafambe neshamwari, vanoramba uye vanotendeukira kuna baba, vachiziva kuti achazoti "hongu." Iwe hauchisungirwe nemumwe wako kuti unamate kune imwe nzvimbo pamagariro ese edzidzo, zvisinei, kuverenga kugumburwa kugumbura kugumbura. "Vana vanofanirwa kuziva kuti vabereki vavo vanoshanda pamwe chete sechikwata uye vanoda kutsigira zvakanakira zvavakanakira," anodaro Van Hollander, mhuri nevanorapurira vana, mubvunzurudzo naMSN. Kupa mhinduro dzakasiyana mukukumbira kwemwana, iwe unozvifunda kuti uve wekunyengedza uye udzidze chikumbiro chakakodzera kumunhu chaiye - hazvizokanganisa mune ramangwana, sekuti hunyengeri huchawedzera mariri, kugona kuona uye kunyepa - kure nehumwe hwakanakisa hunhu.
Kurukura urongwa hwako hwekurerwa newaunotarisana naye
Mufananidzo: Pasina Kurege.com.
Kugadzikana uye Nyaradzo
Batanidza purofesa weDhipatimendi rePsychology yeHofstra Jeffrey J. Fro fro rinotsigirwa nevabereki vacho vanogadzira nyaradzo nemwana, izvo zvinobatsira pakugadzwa kwevimbiso pakati pake uye vabereki. Chimwe chinhu ndechekuti mubereki wese ane mitemo yake - mune ino nyaya, mwana akarasika uye anonzwa kusawirirana kwepamoyo nekuda kwekusanzwisisana, sezvazvakaita. Zvakatoipa zvakanyanya, kana iwe uchipiwa panguva imwe chete kuti uzvipikisane nemazano anopikisa uye vatungamiriri. Nekukurumidza kana gare gare, asi nemaitiro akadaro, mwana anosarudza mubereki anodiwa - uyo achauya kwaari iye achabvunza. "Izvi zvinovhiringidza mwana, sezvaanowanzove nemhosva yekusarudza rimwe remapato, uye rinogona kunetseka zvakare nezveizvozvo mubereki mumwe achapokana nemumwe," anodaro Psychotherapist van Hollander.
Kusikwa kwezvakashata uye zvakaringana zvinhu zvechikadzi
MuRussia, dzidziso iyi haina kufarirwa, asi munyika yekuMadokero, vana vanoedza kudzidzisa vasina kusarudzika uye kuisirwa pasi. Kana mumwe wevabereki akawana basa reAngela, rinomutsa zano rakanaka remwana mumwana, nepo zano rake re "Dhiyabhorosi" mumutambo wemumwe munhu anobatsira kuumbwa kwezano risina kunaka. yemumwe murume kana mukadzi. Izvi zvinozviratidza pazera diki apo achiri kuyaruka anotarisana nevamwe vanhu mune hukama hwerudo kana bhizinesi. Saka vakomana, moms yerwo nguva dzose vakavatora, vanowanzovimba vasikana, uye pane kusapindirana - kune vasikana vane vanababa vane hukama nevarume. Kune vana, zvakakosha kuti uve nehukama hwakanaka, hukama hwepachena nevabereki vese uye nevamwe vatevedzeri samples, zvisinei nekwavo.
Mwana haafanire kunge ari "pet" pakati pevabereki
Mufananidzo: Pasina Kurege.com.
Kusingaperi kupikiswa pakati pevakabatana
Iko kudiwa kwekugara kuri mutariri - basa remumba, kuzadzikiswa kwemabasa emumba uye mamwe mabasa - anogona kumanikidza mubereki mumwe kuti anzwe kugumbuka kune mumwe. Wese munhu anoda kuti vana vake vadi vamude uye vave mudzidzisi uye tevere kutevedzera nemirairo yakakosha nekukura kwemwana - basa risiri iye, asi vese vabereki. "Vabereki vanofanira kutsigirana mune sarudzo. Dzidzo yevana inosanganiswa nematambudziko, uye munhu wese ane maitiro avo ezvedzidzo, "anodaro Van Hollander. Nekudaro, iwe unogona kuve nemitemo inopesana newe, kana iwe usingagovani nguva yekukurukura uye kugadzira chirongwa chimwe chete chedzidzo.